T4Tide
Verified Registered Nurse
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I know this doesn't happen to negligent parents. However, almost every story I read it has happened to working parents. I know this will sound judgmental, and everyone has a story about how they "have to work," but this kind of accident happens because we, as humans, can only do so many jobs at once. Parenting is one of those jobs. It's not a hobby, or a side event to your "main" life. Instead of being preoccupied with what might or might not be going on at the paying job, we need to be preoccupied with what's going on at our more valuable job.
We need to slow down. We need to quit running the rat race. We need concentrate on one thing at a time instead of trying to meet so many demands. IMHO, we shouldn't be working an outside the home job if we are so sleep deprived and preoccupied that we can't parent cohesively. When the kids are older, we are more rested, and they are safely able to unbuckle themselves and exit the car if they are accidentally forgotten, then maybe we can return to work.
Better than a teddy bear, why not engage in a conversation with your child in the vehicle? Turn off the radio. Put down the phone, and talk to the child. If they are asleep, sing lullabies to them. It's hard to forget your baby when you are talking or singing to them.
JMHO
We need to slow down. We need to quit running the rat race. We need concentrate on one thing at a time instead of trying to meet so many demands. IMHO, we shouldn't be working an outside the home job if we are so sleep deprived and preoccupied that we can't parent cohesively. When the kids are older, we are more rested, and they are safely able to unbuckle themselves and exit the car if they are accidentally forgotten, then maybe we can return to work.
Better than a teddy bear, why not engage in a conversation with your child in the vehicle? Turn off the radio. Put down the phone, and talk to the child. If they are asleep, sing lullabies to them. It's hard to forget your baby when you are talking or singing to them.
JMHO