As far as making her boyfriend a sandwich I don't have any problem with her doing that.
I love to cook or even make sandwiches for my hubby. He works very hard even though he retired in 2018. Three months after retiring he opened up his own business. But even if he didnt have his own business now he constantly works hard here on our property, and helping me anyway he possibly can.
I can't begin to count the things he does to help me, and has always done so even when we dated for 2 years before marrying, and I did help him every chance I got, and it warmed my heart when I did.
So the least I can do for him is prepare good home cooked meals or make him the sandwich of his choice. Yes, he tells me he can make his sandwiches, and I know very well he can.
He can do household chores as well as I can too. Thank goodness he knows how to do everything, and does them extremely well.
Nothing went lacking during the couple of times I had to have major surgery, and the recovery took weeks. This included him totally caring for our five children, and cooking for them, when I wasn't able to do so in my in home recovery period.
I became extremely sick right out of the blue back the first of March of this year. No one could have taken better care of anyone like my hubby took care of me. He still does because I'm still struggling to overcome it.
I really wish he would let me do more for him. He knows, and so does my family, preparing food for them all is one way I express my deep abiding love for my hubby, and for my entire family/friends.
So I don't have any problem with her or anyone else for that matter making sandwiches or preparing food for their partner. It's an individual choice.
What I DO have a major problem with though is I believe that statement was a concocted lie meant to deceive.
Btw, peanut butter, and jelly sandwiches are usually one of the best things little children like to eat. It breaks my heart MB won't be able to eat one again.
our little great grands love them!
This does make me wonder if they can pinpoint TOD by stomach contents.
Jmho