Sunny Texas
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I'm a complete outsider to the situation, but I attended a small high school in West Texas many years ago.
I do think it is possible that TB quit the fb team because he was being bullied, and then when he quit he let everyone know that that bullying was getting to him, and so they continued to bully him and something got out of hand.
I know that in many of these little towns the boys may suffer from a sort of toxic masculinity, and they engage in bullying to prove their status among the other young men.
There may be some homophobia at work here. I'm not saying TB was gay, but facts don't stop bullies. If TB enjoyed drama and debate and church, then someone might have targeted him and cast TB as gay. I think the word that was used 35 years ago was "queer." That doesn't necessarily refer to sexual orientation as much as it points to a lack of manliness. Think about how Kevin Bacon's character was bullied in Footloose.
In a town the size of Canadian, most students are encouraged and expected to be involved in multiple extracurriculars, so I don't think anyone had an issue with him being in drama. The issue would be quitting the team mid-season when you got moved to 2nd string. I know that led to tensions. I do not know if those were severe enough to lead to something like this; however, his disappearance happened the night before the football team was headed out to the big championship game downstate. The fact he was involved in a church youth group is a non-issue here in this town. Most any kids who are prominent leaders, athletes, etc. are also very involved in church. From what I've read, the rumor about him being gay was one put out there by the sheriff and has been debunked by people like his ex-girlfriend.
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