Thank you. So it was just another thing she was apparently unaware of.IIRC both of them said that NM had bought them and that although her name was used (was it her other name, SP?) the general consensus was that she hadn't been the one to purchase them. I could be wrong though.. ? I think she said she had no idea they were stun guns although she may have seen them around and just thought they were torches.
How are you feeling about the sentences now, Skibs? Thought you were gonna blow a gasket earlier lol!
I've worked out SH could be eligible for parole in September 2023 and that feels too soon, though I also don't feel especially outraged (mulled wine is helping me...). As for NM, 33 years will do me, I doubt he'll leave alive somehow.
My biggest fear is that they will appeal, and the family will have to live it all again.
Bless them...
Does anyone know what they are referring to when they say Becky has gotten justice "for now"?
Also, aren't these uncles around the same age as NM? I wonder what they thought of him before he murdered their niece...
I'm having a big fat glass of wine tonight. I can't even begin to imagine how harrowing this has been, and will continue to be for the jury.Thoughts are with the jury too, I hope they all have a big fat glass of wine tonight and are able to move on from this. Must have been an awful few weeks.
I'm contemplating whether in a roundabout way this was a crime against Anjie, in NM's mind.
His intense feelings of rage and rejection for her raising Becky and not him, that he couldn't ever let her know about because he may lose her love. So remove and smash the object of Anjie's love and attention and focus.
Or was it a sexual urge that took over him? I cannot forget the judge's comment about inexplicable things that happened to her body. The ripped gusset, the removed tampon perhaps, or the slash wound across her chest.
Hmm - just read on FB how JP was out getting drunk on the weekend...doesn't sound too ill to me... :S
Thoughts are with the jury too, I hope they all have a big fat glass of wine tonight and are able to move on from this. Must have been an awful few weeks.
What disturbs me about the people on the UK and Eire Facebook is they're all fantasising about violence. I understand what it is like to be angry about a murder - a family friend of mine was killed by her boyfriend - but it just isn't in me to wish violence on anyone.
I used to work for an animal charity that rescued abused animals and so many "well meaning" people would say to me that the abusers should have the same thing they did to the animal done to them and they'd go into great detail about it and were very aggressive and they seemed to get a huge thrill saying these things. It was seriously disturbing - encountering these people was actually the worst part of the job.
Well, quite. Without wanting to sound too rude, ahem, most of them can hardly string a sentence together and hardly seem as though they represent the cream of the gene pool...
She "speaks" really well. I think she has been the forgotten victim - DG's family is so big, and there has been a lot of activity on social media from them since February (by that I mean searchable, not they have been posting things to the general public) so I think a lot of the time it has been forgotten that Becky had another family. Her mum and grandma have been so dignified and private. I really hope they have been getting the support and help they need.
Beesknees, how did you get involved in this case, living in Portugal. Was it widely reported there?
I think there is tension between them because of Anjie it must be so hard for all of them. Was it ever known why Dan (Beckys brother)changed his name?
I think there is tension between them because of Anjie it must be so hard for all of them. Was it ever known why Dan (Beckys brother)changed his name?
They'd be uproar if she didn't say she still loved him though. A mother's love is 'supposed' to be unconditional. (Not always in personal opinion)Its understandable, isn't it. To be honest, I can't get my head around her saying publicly that she still loves him. I'd keep that to myself if it were my son. I know we can't even begin to put ourselves in her position, but I can totally understand why Becky's mum would find it difficult to see/speak to AG now. I think it would be easier if she had disowned NM or come out in public and said that she never wanted to see him again. Despite the horrendous things he did, AG still has her child, Becky's mum doesn't - I guess it is as simple as that.