grace - he'd been in her life for a long time - who knows but she would have been vulnerable from a very early age and perhaps as she got older, either things escalated or she became more aware? Two things really freaked me from the beginning -- the fact that both mom and grandma dated this ugly wreck of a man AND when mom "disappeared' (said to me there was some element of guilt or not being able to handle the situation -- as if she were thinking OMG what have I done?)
like when you have a feeling about something and push your feelings down not wanting to believe them....and then WHAM you find out you were right?!
That does make sense. Also, at 12, if Hazell had been around since 'day dot' she might have thought that what was happening was normal. 12 is about the age that I remember becoming a lot more aware of life, death, love, sex - all the things that you are really quite naive to through childhood. For all intents and purposes she was an only child throughout much of her life and a good 8 or 9 years older than her younger brothersso there would not have been the why is he doing this to me but not my brother/sister? in her mind.
Perhaps he had been having his way with her for years and she was beginning to question him. Perhaps she had a lightbulb moment that what was happening was wrong, said something, started crying, etc, and he panicked that she'd tell someone and lashed out out of fear.
Just thinking out loud, not sure I believe that was the case, and all JMO as usual.