squareandrabbet
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I am having a hard time understanding why they are listed as separating in 2017 when the interview makes it sound like she didn't stick around long at all after they married in 2011. I don't doubt her stories about him being crazy. But the timing does sound odd. I do suspect it was a sham marriage for immigration purposes and that she is trying to keep that quiet.
It does seem like the kind of confusing story you would get from someone well meaning trying to explain her relationship with AA, only to keep getting tripped up by "not mentioning the most likely thing she could mention", if you catch my drift.
I also wonder if AA developed complicated and conflicting feelings about "women who say they love you but won't sleep with you" as a result of this relationship. Not that I blame her, but if she was "in love" with him for longer than it took an infatuation to wear off, that makes the fact that they never consummated their relationship, a bit "off" if you ask me. Not to say that women should stay in abusive relationships by any means; but generally, if you're "in love" with someone, even those abusive relationships generally have some willing sex involved at least at the beginning, if you're living under the same roof.