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.....being discussed on Geraldo at Large now...
"Faith w/out works is dead." Meaning the power of prayer (including vigils) shouldn't be underestimated and extremely important IMO but should be accompanied by likeminded actions to back that up, such as searches (where possible) or simply asking the tough questions!
And "Faith calls those things that are not (yet) as though they were..." NOT the other way around! Calling those things which clearly already are as tho they were not is called denial (or self-delusion) in my book.
Exploitation is a classic sign of narcissism. (I try to remember the 5 "E's" including lack of Empathy, sense of Entitlement, Exploitation, Envy and well, there's another one lol) Once again, I find myself falling back upon pearls of wisdom gleaned from my own experience. As I have previously shared, we're instructed how to handle people in various states. We are to "admonish the unruly, encourage the fainthearted, help the weak." And as Dr. Jon Townsend explains in Hiding From Love, "To reverse these is tragic. Encouraging the unruly is like a watchdog making friends with the burglar."
So much of our challenge then becomes one of discerning or determining in which of these particular states a given person is. We should all be forewarned re the dangers of all grace and no confrontation. Like most narcissistic, abusive types who refuse to be held accountable and manipulate counseling, church leadership, and any other intervention intended to require they answer for their behavior, it is ultimately more important to appear righteous than to become righthearted; and they prefer to wallow in the enablement of others. IMO this is the situation JP seems to have been enjoying for some time now.
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Mark Geragos thinks Josh is being suspected prematurely.
I know a lot of people here seem to think that the friends are not helping
by not allowing negative comments on the fb page and that some
think that passing out flyers etc is not going to bring Susan home.
I want to comment about that .
Im almost positive that Susans friend and family know Josh is behind this.
They have more information that we do.
They know more than we do.
My guess is that they pass flyers and do the media blitz because
it is the only thing they can do!
Can you imagine how hard it would be for them to sit back
and do nothing?
It would make me crazy.
Im also sure that LE has told them not to talk crap about Josh.
They want him to have a false sense of security so they can catch
him when/ if he slips up.
IMO LE needs the friends to keep the communication lines open with Josh.
I would bet if the truth were told they all know Josh did something to Susan.
And I bet they are sick about it.
Just because they dont come out and say it does not mean they dont think it!
kind of like you can catch more bees with honey.
JMO
I think they should be handing out flyers into Idaho, Wyoming and Nevada with at least 4 pictures of Josh on them, one with hat on, without hat, views from both sides and asking did you see this guy and the dates.
Mark Geragos thinks Josh is being suspected prematurely.
http://www.ksl.com/?nid=148&sid=9155653
Friends of missing women keep hoping for miracle
December 27th, 2009 @ 9:24pm
By Alex Cabrero
Still, with nothing new for weeks, even Hellewell admits she's not sure what else she can do.
"I've been trying to keep my hopes up every single day, but every morning when I wake up, it gets a lot harder to get that hope and keep that hope that she's still alive." -- Kiirsi Hellewell
"It's really frustrating, and what's even more frustrating is that people are constantly saying 'Why aren't you searching? Why aren't you searching? Why are you sitting at home on your computer? Why aren't you out and searching?'" she says. "I understand the frustration and how hard it is to sit home and wait and not be out doing something, but at the same time, she could be anywhere. It's like a needle in a haystack."
So far, West Valley police detectives have only named Josh Powell, Susan's husband, as a person of interest in the case. He is currently in Washington with his two sons visiting family.