Actual charges
Do you have those charges, Schmaley? I was looking for them earlier and couldn't find a reference. The reason I wanted them, was to look at them and see if there is a "misdemeanor" classification - neglect that doesn't lead to harm vs. neglect that leads to substantial harm or death. It seems to me Virginia (and probably most states) treat parents who engage in the exact same behavior differently, depending on the outcome of their neglect, not the degree of their neglect.
So for example, you could be charged with felony neglect for going to the grocery store and leaving your 3 year old at home alone, if the 3 year old drowns or ingests poison while you are gone. But you could go to the movie and out to eat and leave your 3 year old alone at home, and if the child is absolutely fine when you return you'd be very unlikely to be charged with a serious crime - you'd get a misdemeanor or the attention of CPS that requires parenting classes. So it seems your behavior could be more neglectful, but if you got very lucky and the child was fine, the courts would treat you differently.