Just for the record....my personal feeling here is that this was a tragedy
I would hope and pray that all people who are caught in the horrible disease of
alcholism and addiction can get the help they so badly need...I hope that other kids
whose parents are in this horror get help, and help for their families
I can't judge or point fingers here...if she was diabetic and went into a coma and they drowned...or if she had a stroke and the car went into the water etc etc...this is a disease, tho sometimes hard to think of it as such
coulda woulda shoulda.....alcohol affects those who drink and those around them ...it is a family disease...those of us who have been affected by people who are alcoholics become just as sick as them ...and maybe even worse since we have little "release" like they seem to have....we just simmer and stew and get sicker
as a child of an alcoholic, having been around them all my life, having had guys who had this problem...my ex..etc.. I have to say "there but for the grace of God go I" in this tragedy
I have to also say that at some point in order to keep our own sanity and balance we do learn acceptance, forgiveness, and also learn that we can hate the disease itself yet still love the alcoholic (or their memory)
I feel so bad for this is a real tragedy and my heart goes out to this little boy and also to his sick and suffering mother. I don't think she planned this...I am only sorry that this whole family could not get the help they so badly needed