Rougelatete
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I, too, believe 'something' happened while she was at the mediation and left her two babies alone! :banghead: WHO does that??!! She DID admit that, right?!
Yes, according to Solomon's lawyer, Clay Terry, Julia admitted to leaving the children unattended during the mediation (although I believe Sky was no longer there on that day -- I think he had been "missing" for a while at that point). See below (BBM):
"Date: Mon November 21, 2011
The father of a missing 2-year-old , and his attorney, Clay Terry, join Ron & Don to talk about the search for his son and his contentious relationship with his ex-wife, who hasn't talked to police since their son went missing.
Q: Is there a parenting plan, and if so, why hasn't this guy over here had access to his children?
Attorney Clay Terry: There was a temporary parenting plan that was set up through a restraining order that we received back in... March of 2011. We had been forced to come to court, by Julia, in a complaint that he had done a bunch of bad acts. First she complained that he had beaten her the year before and, of course, that that was proven untrue and thrown out. Then she filed charges against him that he was going to take the children out of the country and the police came and they dismissed that. She's made several allegations and finally when every allegation failed she went and said well I believe that he went and abused the children physically and then she suggested that there may have been sexual abuse. So once we found out about that we went down, we took a polygraph, we passed the polygraph.
CPS did an investigation, they eventually came back and said it was unfounded, it didn't happen. But the court commissioner said that she did not believe him, so she restricted him to see the children only 4 hours a week with a supervisor but conditioned upon a number of classes and things that he had to take that were very expensive and time-consuming. But because he had to pay child support, he had to pay maintainence, and he had to pay her attorney fees with his meager earnings, he couldn't afford to take the time, he was working 70 hours a week. So he had to use the money that he was making to pay, and the time, and he couldn't go to all the classes and take all those preconditions so we decided to wait for trial. And then on Nov.1, two weeks before the trial, we went into a mediation. We spent 11 ½ hours we finished after midnight on the 2nd. She signed a parenting agreement with us. We came up with a parenting plan. And then on Friday, two days later, we received a letter from her lawyer saying she's repudiating it, saying she didn't want it and on Sunday the baby was missing.
... a mediation with 4 small, minor items to discuss took 11 ½ hours. ...7 hours was to arrange a time where he could get visitation with the children. She did not want him to have visitation with the children and she put up a block to do it. She wanted to put enormous restrictions on him; and finally, I understand, when she did make the agreement with him it was not what we wanted, but it was a start and he's get to see the children again, so we agreed with it. It was only 2 days later that she decided she wanted to repudiate that agreement. She didn't want him to have that visitation schedule.
Q: Solomon, where were your kids for those 11 ½ hours while you and Julia were signing this plan?
Q: Clay--Has anyone come forward yet and said I was watching those kids for 11 ½ hours while these guys were in mediation?
A: No, Don, in fact, she admitted she left the children alone that entire time.
Q: We've heard reports that she's been hospitalized three times for her OCD condition. Is that true?
Clay: Yes, and this is very severe. This is not something that's just a minor, she was able to convince a court commissioner that she was healed but she was not. She has OCD, she's been diagnosed as depressed and also with bipolar. And it's a bad combination, and it's a bad combination for someone who has a child. Who is compulsive to the nth degree, which she is."
I would like to know, however, if JS ever watched those kids. Mediation day or otherwise....
And, can I say it once again: Julia ADMITTED to leaving M alone for 11.5 hours (plus travel time, folks). Can't they charge her with that?!?! It has NOTHING to do with Sky's case. Nothing at all. Completely separate crime. No double jeopardy. Just charge her. Be done with it. Charges for Sky can come later.