eileenhawkeye
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118 people viewing this forum at the moment...and it's 3 days after the A&E special. I wonder how high it will go during Dr. Phil and The Case Of episodes.
As a case follower, I am always searching for the case on Google, Facebook, Twitter to see what people are saying. It seems to me that the upcoming Dr. Phil and Case Of episodes are getting a ton of media coverage/promo. So I am wondering...not counting the times when you purposely looked for information on the case, would you have heard about the upcoming CBS shows?
For me, the answer is yes. Three websites I have check very frequently have each posted 2+ articles about Dr. Phil and The Case Of. My friend on FB also posted the trailer for Case of, and I also saw each show trending a few times on FB.
In comparison, I feel like there's no promo for the Investigation Discovery show. It starts on Monday and is three parts. IDK, maybe we will see a lot more this weekend. Also if I didn't follow the case, I would have no idea about Dateline tomorrow or A&E's show.
Reintarnation (and everyone):I saw an ad for Dateline on last night's NBC Nightly News. I watch that and the local NBC news on the same channel pretty much every day, and yesterday was the first time I saw the preview for this week's Dateline. I also saw a preview for the Lifetime movie, but can't remember what channel I was watching.
As a case follower, I am always searching for the case on Google, Facebook, Twitter to see what people are saying. It seems to me that the upcoming Dr. Phil and Case Of episodes are getting a ton of media coverage/promo. So I am wondering...not counting the times when you purposely looked for information on the case, would you have heard about the upcoming CBS shows?
For me, the answer is yes. Three websites I have check very frequently have each posted 2+ articles about Dr. Phil and The Case Of. My friend on FB also posted the trailer for Case of, and I also saw each show trending a few times on FB.
In comparison, I feel like there's no promo for the Investigation Discovery show. It starts on Monday and is three parts. IDK, maybe we will see a lot more this weekend. Also if I didn't follow the case, I would have no idea about Dateline tomorrow or A&E's show.
I really appreciated this post, MK. I struggle with this myself. There is always a part of me that wants to believe IDI, but the evidence won't let me. Sometimes I have a moment watching PR or JR where I think maybe we have had tunnel vision and have not been sympathetic enough. What if that was me and my daughter? But then all those little confounding pieces of evidence bubble to the surface, and you realize there just is no way that IDI.
That theory has been around a while.
That was me who posed the question. I was curious because there are so many people who have followed the case and been emotionally involved in it for 20 years and it occurred to me they might be carrying a huge burden ... over what actually may have been accident and not an intentional homicide.The question was posed earlier: could you forgive? (Sorry, I couldn't respond at the time and can't quote the post.)
It's not my place to forgive, but as an outside observer, I could "forgive" almost anyone who has true remorse. What's awful about this is the perpetuation of a lie, a falsehood, which would seem like it would be unbearable for a person with a conscience.
I hope BR isn't the victim of having to knowingly, (by coercion or pressure), cover up a parent's lies. In the Barbara Walters interview with JR and PR, the one in which PR is wearing a light blue suit, PR looks pained IMO. When Barbara asked JR what did he see when he found her body (yikes, what a question!), PR's face stayed stoic but there's a visible big swallow/gulp which IMO betrays first hand knowledge. I think she had remorse for her part of the happenings. I don't see a trace of that in JR. But people handle things differently. Maybe the executive in him has learned how to hide and repress feelings from others.
or just ask doug stine what he remembers...Who wouldn't? I would be doing anything, including calling psychic hotlines, trying to find out who was responsible for ruining my life, my parents's lives, my step-siblings lives, causing so much pain, heartache and fear by murdering my baby sister in our house in Boulder, Colorado, a city so safe that hers was the only murder in 1996.
He may not remember anything of that night. Yet. Deep memories of past trauma can lie hidden for a long time and I think that is what JR meant when he said that BR was handling things well but that he suspected it would come out later, like at age 40. One day, POP!, the memory comes back. It happens.
Why is this all being stirred up now? The anniversary of her death is December.
Sweeps.
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We also have TV set meters in many local markets, and we collect more than two million paper diaries from audiences across the country each year during sweepsspecific periods during the months of February, May, July and November.
It's not sweeps that I know of, but it's the time of most networks' season premier shows for fall. It's a big deal in broadcasting to hook people into watching their network's programming lineup.
That was me who posed the question. I was curious because there are so many people who have followed the case and been emotionally involved in it for 20 years and it occurred to me they might be carrying a huge burden ... over what actually may have been accident and not an intentional homicide.
Unless her parents and brother wanted her dead, which I do not think they did, there wasn't an intent (IMO) to kill JBR. Now maybe BR had feelings of rage against his sister at the time, or maybe not.
But if you assume John & Patsy loved both of their young kids then of course they would not want harm to befall either. And then the unthinkable happens. A moment of pure rage and an unfixable horrendous blow that led to death. No one wants to go to prison or see their child hauled away if it was the child who caused that injury. That's what would have happened though. No way would Patsy not face serious legal trouble and jail time. Don't know what would have happened to BR, but something would have occurred if it was him. So the family was going to be split apart as a result of that one bad out-of-control moment and the only way to prevent that was to make it appear (or try to) it was someone outside (an intruder) who did this awful deed. I'm not excusing it or saying it was okay, but I'm understanding the trajectory of what I think occurred and seeing the tragedy and sadness (more than feeling anger).
If BR is intelligent and not in denial I'm sure he knows the real deal or has figured it out if it wasn't him. So yes, he is living within the lie that started. If the lie was to protect him, he seems to be handling it just fine.