PickieChickie
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"One of the biggest problems Susan had was that (Josh) talked to his dad for hours, more than he talked to her," said Tim P, a friend and member of the Powells' ward who has been vocal in the past about JP. http://www.deseretnews.com/article/705352897/Josh-Powell-has-left-Utah.html
Thank you! I did not remember Tim Peterson saying that, although I do recall him saying that when he advised Susan to leave Josh, she quit talking to him about her marriage.
Clearly, Susan was reaching out. But, it appears she didn't want to confide in someone who was going to tell her to leave JP.
I have to wonder if JP would go off in a room and close the door so Susan couldn't hear what they were talking about. Since JP was on the phone so much, there would have been times where JP wasn't using the computer. I am still wondering why he wouldn't allow Susan to use the home computer.
JP also told her what to wear, what groceries to buy, what she could eat and who knows what else. It is obvious he was very controlling and it seems he would most likely become angry if Susan defied his authority in any way.
It seems pretty clear that she put her foot down about something that fateful evening. Her parents and friends have repeatedly said that Susan would not have allowed JP to take the boys out of the home at 12:30 AM to go camping. Because of this, Susan DID control JP to a certain extent.
What exactly is it they argued about on December 6, 2009? Was she angry because he took the boys sledding in the dark, leaving after she laid down and without her permission? Maybe she said something to the effect of: "If you are going to continue to do irresponsible things like this, I am going to leave you for good and take my boys with me because clearly you don't know how to care for them properly! How could you take them out in the cold in the dark?"
I would have NEVER allowed my husband to take my little kids out in the dark to go sledding on a Sunday night! Why didn't he take them that afternoon when it was still light? Why go in the dark and on a Sunday night? That is so strange to me! I am assuming the little one was still in diapers. What was he really up to and did he really take them sledding is what I want to know!