jaded cat,
Thats why I think collusion or/and conspiracy. Its not only JonBenet's death that is being covered up. Once the smoke and mirrors are removed only the residents of the Ramsey household are left.
PR would cover for JR if she was colluding with JR. Did JR love PR? Thats a biggy. There are allegations of extra-marital affairs, on both sides. Consider the age difference between PR and JR, consider Patsy's cancer treatment, consider Burke and JonBenet's emotional needs. Where did John fit in? I always like to refer to Tiger Woods as an exemplar. Successful, multi-millionaire, endorsements coming out his ears, married to a nice woman with beautiful children, in short the perfect family man. Yet look at what his wealth allowed him to do, all that money spent on non-familial entertainment. Now compare with the Ramsey's.
I've yet to see a consistent BDI. Also if BDI is the correct interpretation then I wonder if Burke is unique in the US? He seems to be living a normal life.
If BDI makes sense for you, what do you think the motive was?
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Plenty of people who have gotten away with crimes, even murder, go on to live perfectly normal lives. Don't be fooled into thinking that the knowledge of what they have done makes them feel guilty or drives them insane. Sometimes that is the case, but most of the time what they feel is relief at having gotten away with it. While they may be waiting for the "other shoe to drop", in general, many people get away with crimes all the time. BR is not unique by any means, not in the US or anywhere else.
When horrific things happen in a family (even if a child is responsible), that event is often tainted by memories that are not always correct. Kids tend to remember things the way they have been TOLD they happened and not necessarily the way they really happened.
There doesn't have to be a "motive" per se. Kids act out in anger and sometimes the results are catastrophic.
There was abuse- we know that. The abuser holds the key to why there was a coverup, if not why there was a murder. I feel the head bash, which would have killed her by itself, was not done to silence her because she was going to tell someone about the abuse. I feel it was done to silence her because she screamed during the abuse. So the abuse and coverup are connected, but not the way some think.
Patsy would cover for JR. There are several reasons why. Yes, if she had hit the fatal blow. They each had a horse in that race. Maybe to keep the remaining family intact. Think of how she and BR would manage if JR was jailed or ruined and her cancer came back. Don't underestimate anyone's survival instincts. In desperate situations, people do things you'd never think they would be capable of.