Bobbisangel
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So often LE closes the parent or parents of a missing person out and refuse to tell them anything. That has to be the most frustrating thing that I can ever imagine. Parents are worried sick and haven't a clue what has happened to their child and then LE are secretive about anything that they might have learned while investigating.
I think this is what happened to Amos's mother. She was totally shut out and was just fed little crumbs. That just didn't work. I realize that LE can't tell everything about a case but for heaven's sake...don't shut the parnets out. They have to know what is going on and what LE have learned if anything. How do they keep their sanity without knowing something. It really is unfair and shouldn't be allowed.
Sometimes parents are told things that they don't want to accept. If the drug thing is true maybe Amos's mother didn't know that he was involved with the selling of drugs...if he was. He was living away from home and maybe he was a real straight kid while growing up and living at home. If that were the case I can understand her being so upset when drugs entered the picture and Amos might have confronted this dealer who owed him money. She wouldn't have had a clue and of course she would have gotten upset.
I hope that the truth is found out in this case and that Amos is found. I hope that he is alive and maybe just hiding somewhere afraid to contact anyone that he knows...even his mother. Maybe he thinks that knowing where he is could be a threat to his mother. It is a sad thing that this mother has been in the dark most of the time her son has been missing. Hopfully that will change soon.
I think this is what happened to Amos's mother. She was totally shut out and was just fed little crumbs. That just didn't work. I realize that LE can't tell everything about a case but for heaven's sake...don't shut the parnets out. They have to know what is going on and what LE have learned if anything. How do they keep their sanity without knowing something. It really is unfair and shouldn't be allowed.
Sometimes parents are told things that they don't want to accept. If the drug thing is true maybe Amos's mother didn't know that he was involved with the selling of drugs...if he was. He was living away from home and maybe he was a real straight kid while growing up and living at home. If that were the case I can understand her being so upset when drugs entered the picture and Amos might have confronted this dealer who owed him money. She wouldn't have had a clue and of course she would have gotten upset.
I hope that the truth is found out in this case and that Amos is found. I hope that he is alive and maybe just hiding somewhere afraid to contact anyone that he knows...even his mother. Maybe he thinks that knowing where he is could be a threat to his mother. It is a sad thing that this mother has been in the dark most of the time her son has been missing. Hopfully that will change soon.