iQuill
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100% agree. Moreover, there is something in the gaze of these “creeps” that repels girls/ women, who share their opinion with one another and even protect one another from these “creepy” boys/men. Lily, probably, was too young to be feared of him.On the contrary, people like this are usually afraid of women and girls who can tell that they're "creepy" and more or less ostracize them in a completely natural instinctive self-preservative social process.
If I were to speculate my guess would be that Lilly was one of the few girls who was nice to him and played with him because she thought she didn't need to be afraid <modsnip> and he developed a sexual fixation on her because of it then he fearfully revealed that to her and got an "Ew, no don't be gross, Stupid" response and that is what led to the crime.
He apparently went back to try and hide the crime better.Another reason that came to me could be that he was scared of what he had actually done and it just all came tumbling out in the presence of LE, who can be a tad intimidating, even if they are just standing there in their uniforms. Before the act he was caught up with the thoughts in his head to rape and kill her (for whatever horribly odd reason) which fueled him to act. He wasn't thinking logically at that point. He was caught up in his fantasy, he acted on it, then snapped out of it when it was over. Likely when he stood up and observed what he had done (it then became real and no longer a fantasy), got scared, and fled the scene to wash up.
Obviously MOO
I am interested in it, too. In some cases, like that of Eric Harris, there was an external factor (bullying and the whole atmosphere of the Columbine school), but his diaries scream untreated mental illness. JMO. In other cases, the level of anger does not match anything in the perp’s life. I am beginning to wonder if alexithymia, a yet poorly understood, but extensively studied condition, plays a certain role. The problem is not the anger itself, but the fact that only extreme emotions, be it anger, sadness or happiness, reach the “surface” and are registered as such. Alexithymia - WikipediaYes, pent up rage...why? Where did it come from?
I've been a teacher, too, and long ago, I had a student rob and then murder 4 people. When I heard the news that did not give names, I wondered if it was someone I knew. When I heard who it was, I was not surprised. Neither were the police who were well acquainted with these boys. In fact they caught them just minutes after it happened because they recognized them out in the early hours of the morning. Teachers, school counselors, police officers all see the signs, but very little can be done until they commit a crime. These boys were also 14.
I don't completely disagree with you about the fact that I hope there is a shred of decency.LWOP
The consequences for minors are minor.
Rape in itself means he ia past the age pf puberty, AKA he is literally a young adult.
Nothing is minor about premeditated murder.
Like the young man that shot classmates at Oxford HS, max adult penalties are the just match to the crime.
Hope he pleads guilty, MOO he will if he has a shred of decency left.
A confession means possibly he does have some remorse.
He should want LWOP, to protect others from him.
If rich and poor got the same DP penalty, no problem. The system cannot deliver it though because the quality of defense is so dependent on the amount of money the accused can spend.I don't completely disagree with you about the fact that I hope there is a shred of decency.
But I also think that predimeditated rape and murder, and acting on it, cannot be solved. Sometimes justice needs to get rid of people like this and not pay millions for them to stay alive.
Makes me sick reading what he did to that poor girl.
He wouldn't need a private pay attorney to plead guilty, IMO. He would need one to fight, MOO. IMHO, his attorney should not have taken his case due to conflict of interest (If he tries some of the defenses that I believe, IMO, that he will use)LWOP
The consequences for minors are minor.
Rape in itself means he ia past the age pf puberty, AKA he is literally a young adult.
Nothing is minor about premeditated murder.
Like the young man that shot classmates at Oxford HS, max adult penalties are the just match to the crime.
Hope he pleads guilty, MOO he will if he has a shred of decency left.
A confession means possibly he does have some remorse.
He should want LWOP, to protect others from him.
I apologize in advance for sounding stupid... but I'm not understanding your comment about a conflict of interest and defenses he may use. Can you elaborate, please? I'd really like to understand what you mean and I'm drawing a blank. lolHe wouldn't need a private pay attorney to plead guilty, IMO. He would need one to fight, MOO. IMHO, his attorney should not have taken his case due to conflict of interest (If he tries some of the defenses that I believe, IMO, that he will use)
IMO, It's a common defense tactic for young offenders' attorneys to blame circumstances, abuse, etc. This attorney has been used by the perpetrator's family before. I'm sorry I cannot be more specific, TOS.I apologize in advance for sounding stupid... but I'm not understanding your comment about a conflict of interest and defenses he may use. Can you elaborate, please? I'd really like to understand what you mean and I'm drawing a blank. lol
TIA
Personally, I don't think anyone has to watch "inappropriate videos" in order to get ideas, and can just simply react on urges sexually. He even said he didn't remember doing that so I can't see a person that just murdered someone, then trying to have sex with them thinking... "I think I'll bite her on the butt like I saw in that video". People can just react.And the biting - where did he get that from? Had he been watching inappropriate videos?
My own opinion is that biting during attacks stems mainly from anger and frustration. Some studies support that theory and include a need to dominate. Whenever biting is involved in a crime I’m reminded of Ted Bundy. I’ve also seen angry toddlers bite.And the biting - where did he get that from? Had he been watching inappropriate videos?
BBM for focus.My own opinion is that biting during attacks stems mainly from anger and frustration. Some studies support that theory and include a need to dominate. Whenever biting is involved in a crime I’m reminded of Ted Bundy. I’ve also seen angry toddlers bite.
So maybe he learned it from somewhere or perhaps he was venting anger towards his victim by way of extreme, animalistic behavior. MOO
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