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family members in special situation
I am going to speak from the position of a family member of a missing loved one. I have worn many hats over the twenty five years of my searching for Jean Marie Stewart, and sometimes I have to switch gears. I have been a cyber seeker for as many years as it has been available, and before that, I haunted cororners and LE with my phone calls.
The cases of the missing are all so individual that there really can be difficulty in knowing the right course to pursue. Some cases get lots of publicity, some, like Jean's , never get any. I have read posts in various forums about why people think this is so, but Jean's case doesn't fit any of those theories either. Maybe it is just that back in 1980, nobody wanted to notice. Now there are so many missing, we have to notice.
I post all over the place about Jean now. For years, I did not...just searched and searched for info. Now I actively seek it from strangers. It is always difficult to know how much info to post, how much will help me get some answers and how much would interfere with any later police actions. All I know is that after 25 years, no one is looking for her except those of us who love her.
It is horrific to think that there are people who would exploit and betray those of us who have suffered the loss and endured the uncertainty of a having a missing loved one. As someone who has now searched half of my life for my missing Jean Marie, I cannot imagine the void these people must have where their humanity should reside. In some ways, they are as despicable as the beasts who snatch people from our lives.
Pardon my ranting, but as we approach the 25th anniversary of Jean's disappearance, I am losing it.
Lauran