barrysgirl
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I really think that she was just wanting one more kid. But then she found out that 7 implanted and didn't want to abort. Now she's probably realizing that she made a huge mistake in wanting just one more and implanting 8... and now she's at the spot where she has to find a way to support all the kids on her own.
She made a huge mistake... I agree. But she's got to make lemonade out of the lemons and even if these kids were a "mistake" they are still children... they are still meant to be loved... they still have a purpose in this life.
here's where my empathy with her stops. i can understand her wanting another baby. i cant imagine wanting another one if i were a single mother of 6 but ok..i'll give her that much.
but IMO this cant be called a mistake.
when you have embryos planted, you are told right then and there the risk that they may all take. so i blame her for irresponsibility of doing that. she knew the risk this would happen. so, IMO, this is no mistake. this is a consequence of her own actions.
i dont want her to get one red cent from exploiting her children but then the point brought up that if she doesnt get money from that then the government will have to support her is one i hadnt thought of. so i hope she gets all she can because the government cant afford to pay for 14 children because of her own irresponsibility.