So, if this is the gist of what went wrong on 8/12:
Perhaps he would like to control his own narrative more. Hunting him down would only make him more desperate. If the ultimate goal is for the parents to know what happened to GP, then maybe the only way to reach him is to give this guy a "win". IMO
- They get into a fight
- He takes her phone and keys from her and tells her to go take a walk to calm down
- She gets scared and upset because she doesn't want to and wants her phone and keys back
- The more hysterical she gets, the more he uses it as a reason to keep the phone and keys away from her and tells her to essentially, go away
- She can't believe why she can't get him to understand how she feels and ends up slapping etc
- He points to this to feel justified in his actions of locking her out of the car in self defense
- She claws her way in fearing abandonment
- He points to this behavior to call her "crazy"
- I'm not going to tell anyone what happened because people will crucify me no matter what I say
- People get upset that he doesn't even do the basic minimum such as tell authorities where he was last with her
- He feels justified: look at how scary people are behaving, see, this is why I don't want to say anything to the police
Perhaps he would like to control his own narrative more. Hunting him down would only make him more desperate. If the ultimate goal is for the parents to know what happened to GP, then maybe the only way to reach him is to give this guy a "win". IMO
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