You need an actual Venmo Mastercard debit card to do all that with Venmo. And getting a Venmo debit card requires verification of your identity.
IMPORTANT INFORMATION ABOUT PROCEDURES FOR OPENING A NEW CARD ACCOUNT: To help the government fight the funding of terrorism and money laundering activities, federal law requires all financial institutions to obtain, verify, and record information that identifies each person who opens a Card Account.
What this means for you: When you open a Card Account, we will ask for your name, address, date of birth, and other information that will allow us to identify you. We may also ask to see a copy of your driver’s license or other identifying documents.
When you apply for the card make sure to use your home address and not work address or P.O. Box so that we are able to verify your identity.
https://help.venmo.com/hc/en-us/articles/360000743827-Customer-Identification