Recent content by stmarysmead

I feel the same and thank you for posting this.

Yes, you were first to mention it…and it does seem too coincidental! I agree 100%.

0ne thing I admire and respect about this forum is the ‘victim friendly’ rule. Social media is full of so much fantasized garbage about strangers none of us knew and cases we have the barest facts about. . I think it honors those who died so tragically to presume they lived idyllic lives of...

This is all fun to discuss the merits of various professions …but it’s taken on kind of a “Mama, don’t let your babies grow up to be…Surgeons” kind of vibe….lol. To each his own and let the paychecks roll…lol Things will be better when we have more actual evidence used to indict in this case!

It looks like in different paragraphs both are called plaintiff/defendant. Can anyone explain that? Is that a ‘no-fault?’

Excellent post. It’s not victim-blaming to suggest someone might seek out a husband with the prospects to give them a comfortable life. People have lots of reasons to select or reject a suitor…they might want someone with the same religion, or political views, or education, or desire to have...

Maybe they had been dating for 5plus years, he was going to move to Va for his residency…and it was decision time. I read on here that she was able to change to remote work, that would be her doing. She bought the rings. He probably got a Physician’s loan to buy a house for them…that would...

Most new grads do not open their own practice for the reason you state. The accused did not. Nobody I know ever did. Most want to make some money first. After years of making, $50,000 or $60,000 as a resident or fellow…you can go to a large corp or doc-owned practice and make $300,000, $400,00...

AI… AI Overview A general surgery starting salary is strong and varies by location and practice type, generally ranging from the low $300,000s to over $400,000 annually, with some rural or high-demand acute care positions reaching even higher for new graduates. For example, new grads in rural...

Maybe in his mind, they had 5 great years together, but she just couldn’t tolerate the loneliness and trials of his training years. She would have been looking at another move, another 5-6 years. So she finds someone with those training years behind him and staying in Columbus near her...

Yes. Pay more for the new one with newest training.

A general surgeon who trained many years ago is different from a fellowship trained vascular surgeon just out of specialized training. My guess is that in such situations they are often looking for a Dr with the most updated training, and they will pay MORE to get one. Medicine changes so...

He may just have chosen not to renew NV license because he’s not practicing there anymore. Most of this stuff around his medical career I don’t find suspicious at all..except that info about opening a Columbus office when he just bought a condo in Chicago. Rockford and Columbus…how was that...

Agreed about his career. He is in an in-demand specialty. Changing jobs can be because another practice pursued and offered more money, preferred location…family experience with that. Malpractice paid by employer. Lawsuits in certain high risk specialties and in a sue-everybody era is viewed...

Looks like a Dr’s loan.