2009.11.12 Mallory Parker's Depo *read it here*

[whiteangora]

I dunno Whiteangora - I just thought she had a completely flat personality - she isn't expressing affection or concern for Lee in the depo either - I think she rarely saw the Anthony's and was the girl friend who was hanging on to what appears to be her first and only long term boyfriend. She's just flat Mallory...maybe that works with Lee - who is......just Lee.

You make a good point about the flat personality. But even a 99 year old person would have better recall than she does. Something's not right.

 

[cecybeans]

Mallory sounds like she's been waterboarded using the special recipe of Anthony-flavored Koolaid.

 

[Ricki]

I love you guys because you get upset like I do about the things that upset me. Someone has to be upset for Caylee. If you have had abuse in your family you understand that a child can be alone and caught up with selfish/evil people. And, call it personal-it disturbs me to hear about what a child had to endure from her "family." The proof of her neglect speaks loud and clear, she is no longer with us and her mother can not tell us why.

Hearing Mallory state that no one was frantic or upset while Caylee was missing is surreal, it is more than a normal flawed but loving person- can truly process. I knew Annie Dowling said when she spent the night while Casey was out on bail, they made popcorn and watched a movie, her Cindy and Casey. Annie says they did not discuss Caylee. I knew Caylee did not have friends her own age. I knew her mother did not risk (everything/anything)to make that call to report her missing. I know that her mother and her grandparents did not look for her, even in their own neighborhood. I don't know what others would do or how they would react. But I know how good human beings who love the person who is missing would act. Tim Miller said he never had a family act this way when a child was missing.

If you feel like I feel...only other people expressing their emotions about this can help alleviate the psychic pain caused by (in a flash) understanding (deeply) what (short)life was like for Caylee Marie.

What ever this family is-they are capable of sitting nicely and eating dinner while their two year old is missing. You either understand the inhumaness of that...or you don't.

:twocents:

Chiquita I have tears in my eyes. You have said this so well. I have 4 grown girls, 4 grandchildren, 2 of them age of Cayless age when she passed. I would not stand idolly by and make believe everything was normal. I would completely fall apart. I could not watch a movie much less eat. I think I would fall down on my knees and pray so hard. I would never stop looking. I would be begging the public to help and would take any help that was giving to find my grand kids. When I was younger and a new mother one of my kids was lost in a store. well not really lost but hiding in a clothes rack. I was petrified. I don't know how the Anthonys could claim they loved their grand baby and not show any true emotion. so very said. They are pathetic.

 

[Leila]

I'll sum up the depo.

I don't know
Not that I recall
No
No
Not that I recall
No
Happy family dinner
No
I don't recall
..........

Rinse and repeat.

I just finished reading the whole 76 pages, anticipating with each new page that I'd find something important.

There was nothing, not one thing in this depo that was enlightening. All of Mallory's answers were vague and non-specific. For the most part, she answered with "not that I recall."

Mallory claims she has a close relationship with Cindy and George, yet she knows nothing!

 

[crucibelle]

Mallory mentioned both of them. But I think it was AL who she said KC had been on and off with. I'm not 100 percent positive though. Do we care that much? I guess I could go back and look it up.

Nah, it's not really that important, I just thought I might have read something wrong, is all. I may go back and look at it later.

 

[allycat1208]

I love you guys because you get upset like I do about the things that upset me. Someone has to be upset for Caylee. If you have had abuse in your family you understand that a child can be alone and caught up with selfish/evil people. And, call it personal-it disturbs me to hear about what a child had to endure from her "family." The proof of her neglect speaks loud and clear, she is no longer with us and her mother can not tell us why.

Hearing Mallory state that no one was frantic or upset while Caylee was missing is surreal, it is more than a normal flawed but loving person- can process. I knew Annie Dowling said when she spent the night while Casey was out on bail, they made popcorn and watched a movie, her Cindy and Casey. Annie says they did not discuss Caylee. I knew Caylee did not have friends her own age. I knew her mother did not risk (everything/anything)to make that call to report her missing. I know that her mother and her grandparents did not look for her, even in their own neighborhood.

I don't know what others would do or how they would react. But I know how good human beings who love the person who is missing would act. Tim Miller said he never had a family act this way when a child was missing.

If you feel like I feel...only other people expressing their emotions about this can help alleviate the psychic pain caused by (in a flash) understanding (deeply) what (short)life was like for Caylee Marie.

What ever this family is-they are capable of sitting nicely and eating dinner while their two year old is missing. You either understand the inhumaness of that...or you don't.

:twocents:

I remember Tim Miller saying that no family ever acted like that but I didn't know what he meant exactly. He meant they were not helping in the search for a dead Caylee? But the Anthonys didn't want to believe she was dead. Texas Equuasearch searches for live children how I wonder also? Did they have their own private investigators or what? Why were they paying for another private eye than? Was Texas Equaasearch searching for a live Caylee as well? I never quite got all that.

 

[darnudes]

I can't believe we waited all this time for a big ol' bunch of doo hickey.

 

[crucibelle]

I remember Tim Miller saying that no family ever acted like that but I didn't know what he meant exactly. He meant they were not helping in the search for a dead Caylee? But the Anthonys didn't want to believe she was dead. Texas Equuasearch searches for live children how I wonder also? Did they have their own private investigators or what? Why were they paying for another private eye than? Was Texas Equaasearch searching for a live Caylee as well? I never quite got all that.

The Anthony's were sooo rude to poor Tim Miller, too. Makes me so mad when I think about it! Of course they'd be rude & angry though, they were too afraid he was going to find Caylee's body, because they already knew she was dead. JMO.

 

[katydid23]

Exactly. But... when seeing when this depo was actually DONE makes me call "glorified booty call" cause Lee has yet to "put a ring on it."

MOO and whatnots

IIRC, they are now engaged.

 

[logicalgirl]

I love you guys because you get upset like I do about the things that upset me. Someone has to be upset for Caylee. If you have had abuse in your family you understand that a child can be alone and caught up with selfish/evil people. And, call it personal-it disturbs me to hear about what a child had to endure from her "family." The proof of her neglect speaks loud and clear, she is no longer with us and her mother can not tell us why.

Hearing Mallory state that no one was frantic or upset while Caylee was [/B]missing is surreal, it is more than a normal flawed but loving person- can process. I knew Annie Dowling said when she spent the night while Casey was out on bail, they made popcorn and watched a movie, her Cindy and Casey. Annie says they did not discuss Caylee. I knew Caylee did not have friends her own age. I knew her mother did not risk (everything/anything)to make that call to report her missing. I know that her mother and her grandparents did not look for her, even in their own neighborhood.

I don't know what others would do or how they would react. But I know how good human beings who love the person who is missing would act. Tim Miller said he never had a family act this way when a child was missing.

If you feel like I feel...only other people expressing their emotions about this can help alleviate the psychic pain caused by (in a flash) understanding (deeply) what (short)life was like for Caylee Marie.

What ever this family is-they are capable of sitting nicely and eating dinner while their two year old is missing. You either understand the inhumaness of that...or you don't.

:twocents:

I believe your comments are primarily on point as usual Chiquita, but Mallory actually described what she and the family were feeling as "sheer panic".

 

[katydid23]

You make a good point about the flat personality. But even a 99 year old person would have better recall than she does. Something's not right.

In my opinion, she was trying hard to stay out of the whole mess. I think she figures if she plays dumb then she won't be the star of any one's witness list.

It is really really really hard for me to believe that she does not know what Lee thinks happened. How can you have a 3 year long relationship with someone, and when their 2 yr old niece goes missing, and the mother is accused of murder, you do not discuss with him what he thinks happened? That makes no sense.

 

[logicalgirl]

I can't believe we waited all this time for a big ol' bunch of doo hickey.

:floorlaugh: :floorlaugh: :floorlaugh: and with that comment darnudes, you've convinced me all is well on the board and I am going off to watch "my guys" on NCIS Los Angeles.

See you all sharp at 6:00AM - well okay - 9:00AM your time. ........ fftobed: ........... :bedtime:

 

[Wise Old Owl]

ok this is my absolute last post on the car; and the phone call and was MP there.

I found in my travels back through the annals of time :crazy:

The infamous waste phone call was made at 1:06PM 7/16 So, that puts MP at the house at 1 PM on 7/16. Now I still haven't found an exact time but I did find that the car was collected on 7/16 as well. Since ICA was being interrogated at Universal and subsequently arrested around noon 7/16 - I don't think they got the car until later in the day. But I can't find the exact time.

So, I'm sticking by my "FOUL" call on MP's depo and not seeing or smelling the car. I do believe the car was there and she knew it.

Now, I promise not to say another word about it.

 

[Woe.be.gone]

Mallory mentioned both of them. But I think it was AL who she said KC had been on and off with. I'm not 100 percent positive though. Do we care that much? I guess I could go back and look it up.

I'm wrong - see new post below.

****, my mind is getting old and can't be trusted.

Beginning page 45, line 18 ~
Q. Did you know the name Adam Lynch?
A. No
Q. Or Ryan Pasley?
A. Yes
Q. Who is Ryan Pasley?
A. A friend of Casey's. I believe he lives in Jacksonville.
Q. Have you ever met him?
A. Yes
Q. When did you meet him?
A. I met Ryan just months before Caylee went missing. . . . . He and Casey
from what I understand from what I gather from what I was told were kind of off and on and they were going through an on phase. . . . .

 

[logicalgirl]

In my opinion, she was trying hard to stay out of the whole mess. I think she figures if she plays dumb then she won't be the star of any one's witness list.

It is really really really hard for me to believe that she does not know what Lee thinks happened. How can you have a 3 year long relationship with someone, and when their 2 yr old niece goes missing, and the mother is accused of murder, you do not discuss with him what he thinks happened? That makes no sense.

First it was Lee - you remember him - right? And second - I was mulling above - this is a guy who grew up with CA as his mother and ICA as his sister - suspect he has trust issues with confiding in females...just IMO. Plus he was away for three weeks at time through all of this.

 

[Spangle]

IIRC, they are now engaged.

And why aren't they married yet? I know U don't know the answer. But it seems like it would be something to do to keep her 'friendly'. But without a real commitment.

 

[logicalgirl]

ok this is my absolute last post on the car; and the phone call and was MP there.

I found in my travels back through the annals of time :crazy:

The infamous waste phone call was made at 1:06PM 7/16 So, that puts MP at the house at 1 PM on 7/16. Now I still haven't found an exact time but I did find that the car was collected on 7/16 as well. Since ICA was being interrogated at Universal and subsequently arrested around noon 7/16 - I don't think they got the car until later in the day. But I can't find the exact time.

So, I'm sticking by my "FOUL" call on MP's depo and not seeing or smelling the car. I do believe the car was there and she knew it.

Now, I promise not to say another word about it.

No no - you are probably right - but this bright spark is saying she "didn't see" it, or (go out of her way to) smell it. I believe that if it was sitting at the curb. She was focused on the family and what was going on - and I gather the family was focused on Caylee being missing and didn't talk about the car.
But I am not arguing with you - at all :rocker:

 

[Kat]

I'm just going to throw out a thought , a devil's advocate kind of thought:
Is it possible that this whole family plays their various "rolls" , deceiving THEMSELVES and others and it is more or less a "play like" household. (is this a "duh" statement?)
The family as a whole has secrets and each member has secrets and they put on a "charade" for themselves , each other and the outside world. (Maybe lots of families are like that to a degree but this one is exceptional???)
I got the impression that either M was "fudging" OR the games they play to try to function and appear a normal family kept her in the dark and she saw only what they wanted her to see (or hear) except for some unavoidable moments of candor?
Know this is too long and I'm not really making myself clear but if anyone would like to comment and / or clarify feel free; IF I made any sense at all!!:crazy:
Guess I'm trying to find SOMETHING that doesn't make me want to yell at her......"WHAT WERE / ARE YOU THINKING???!!!":banghead:

I think you are close to the truth. And to add that not only does each family member have a role that family member also has some serious issues going on that keeps them in that role. Enmeshed, codependent, control struggles, power issues, each of them has a role.

So my immediate thoughts are what are mallory's issues and why is she so attracted to Lee and friendly with his Mom? Yes she's young but she's a grown woman.

IMHO Caylee was loved to the extent that her family can love. Meaning their definition and expressions of love are not like those that we have for our families and our children.

This is one very dysfunctional family. We see a lot of dysfunction in families where a family member is responsible for the murder of a child but this family has dysfunction in aces. The thing is that any one of them could have by this time sought help with their dysfunction and possibly, just possibly saved Caylee. JMHO

 

[Wise Old Owl]

No no - you are probably right - but this bright spark is saying she "didn't see" it, or (go out of her way to) smell it. I believe that if it was sitting at the curb. She was focused on the family and what was going on - and I gather the family was focused on Caylee being missing and didn't talk about the car.
But I am not arguing with you - at all :rocker:

Oh I wasn't trying to argue with you - its more like I was arguing with myself. lol

The car was in the garage - remember LA's quote about his first smelling it and noticing that all the windows were down to "vent that thing". And again, how ICA went out into the garage and LA went out there to talk with her and he couldn't understand how she could just sit there with that smell and all. So, the car was in the garage - not at the curb.

IMHO MP was trying to score brownie points with the A clan with this depo. Saying "see I can keep my mouth shut and just say I don't know too"! :crazy:

 

[Woe.be.gone]

Oh FGS! I'm almost speechless about this coming out of jail celebration dinner and nothing being said about Caylee! I have come to realize that some people can probably put up such a big charade to bluff an outsider, anybody for that matter. There would be no dinner for anybody that night if it were my home. Between this and remembering through reading that it was CA ? or both CA and GA that went with lighting speed to file for their 1st foundation docs, just days after Caylee was reported as missing? FGS, why would they attempt to do that so quickly if in reality ica was only being stubborn to not tell them as to the whereabouts of Caylee? Yup, I think they have always known. :banghead:

What are 1st foundation docs? I must have missed this.