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IMO, this was absolutely the wrong time for the 'poor me' stuff. Sure, get your mama to take the stand and tell what a terrible mother she was and how badly you were treated, but to sit in court and tell a judge you are not a drug dealer when you have been caught on tape dealing drugs numerous times is not going to help your case, not to mention her blaise attitude about the whole thing. I deal drugs because I am poor and that is what poor people do, but I'm not a drug dealer.
I'm a mom. My kids are not perfect. There have been many instances where my kids have done something wrong. In dealing with them, and their 'punishment', the #1 factor for me was their attitude about what they had done. They got into a lot less trouble if they admitted what they did and exhibited an understanding they did wrong than if they lied to me, argued with me, and showed no inclination to not do it again.
Because of what Misty said in court today, had I been the judge, though it would have pained me dearly, I would not have considered her for the YO status, and I would have sentenced her to the 25 years, also. It would have had not one thing to do with Haleigh. The BBM above, it has been reported the judge told Misty she was NOT there because of Haleigh, she was there because of drugs, after Misty and her attorney both played the Haleigh card as the reason Misty was arrested for dealing drugs.
BBM: I don't think that the poster I was replying to was using the "drug dealing" was the "poor me" statement. I can't reply for them though. At sentencing mitigating factors are suppose to be considered. At this time "the poor me" factors are usually entails her life, events that may have impacted her decisions made in life, tragic impacts, crimes against her are considered, etc., but anyway I can tolerate a "poor me" statement when the charged is 18 yrs. old and is facing the rest of their life behind bars.