Hello WS
I know people can get this messed up when they drink. Did Diane? I know we are waiting for more information. I am not drawn to every story on WS(in the news)but this one...
I do not drink, my parents are alcoholics: my father drove home drunk from my wedding. He had been walking/stumbling around thanking everyone for coming to "the birthday" when he and my mother came over and announced they would be going home. I asked, "do you think its okay for dad to drive?" And, my mother treated me as she always has: "of course he's okay to drive": like how dare you question us?
If I said out loud in public that my father is an alcoholic my mother would ask that I be checked out for sanity. If I told her I remember dad and her being drunk while I was a child they would say that I remember things the way I want to remember them. That I am melodramatic and a liar.
When my dad didn't come home on time my mom would have us sit in the dark in the living room "imagining" him home. We would imagine him pulling in the driveway and everything being okay: till he came home. Sometimes it was hours and we couldn't eat dinner till he came home. But by then he was so drunk he barely knew who he was or who we were. He would fall asleep eating dinner, or say and do things that made no sense. We would just wait for him to finally pass out.
Once we were in a restaurant waiting for my father(me, my sister, brother and mother)and when my father came in he was stumbling all over the place. When he came in everyone noticed how drunk he was: I was thinking about her children(of who there is only one left)and if their mom was a drinker, I know how scary that can be. If this wasn't her first time drinking, I think the kids knew, maybe too young to articulate what drinking is-but now that I am an adult I can look back and remember my father being drunk and my mom yelling at him about it as early as six.
Diane's boy is five.
Will he be questioned? (I don't know if that would be right or not?):waitasec: Do we(under the law)ask questions in a investigation of children so young?
My mom drank and got angry. That is when she would come after us about something we had done earlier or anything we did wrong. I remember when she would pull my hair or get in my face, her breath would smell like alcohol.
But neither of my parents would dignify what I have said about them today. For you see, they have a crazy daughter. :crazy: (That would be me.)
Things are coming back to me now. I have never talked about this too much. My husband knows about my parents, his are equally as bad with the drink and his brother is an alcoholic too. It would take less time to list my family members that do not drink and are not alcoholics.
Well, sorry to go on...:boohoo:
I really do wonder if what really caused this "accident" was alcohol? And, if it was then we know it wasn't the alcohol that was the problem, it is whatever made her drink in the first place.
...jmo...