We often talk in soundbites here at WS. Our wonderings, questions, and thoughts end up distilled here when often we all know there is much more behind what is actually posted. We have our own thoughts, experiences, and biases which are briefly presented in one single post(s). Yes, we do seek the truth, the cause, and well, the blame for situations. And, honestly, we can be incredibly nit-picky sometimes.
To the Coxes:
I refuse to blame either the case worker or the 911 operator and have not participated in any of the conversations that do that. It wouldn't have mattered, as you obviously have determined. Really, it wouldn't have mattered at all if anything had been speeded up 5 or 10 minutes. No, it just wouldn't have mattered.
Bless you all for your strength. You're an inspiration for all of us.