notthatsmart
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Wow, what a frightening story. It shook you to the core! I think most of us have had an episode in our lives that make us tear up and think, "omg...what if!" Thanks for sharing.
I agree that Caylee's death was probably an accident.
I don't agree that Caylee was always put first by Casey. But I don't agree with others that she was despised by her mother, either. I don't think Casey cleared all of the stages of maturity. I am not a pyschologist, but I do know that having a child changes the priorities of the majority of mothers. Sometimes it can be a tough change (and hormones don't always help), but it happens nonetheless, and it's always for the better. Casey had never been on her own, never held a job, and never had to be responsible for anything. You can't expect a child (and let's face it, Casey never matured beyond the mental age of a teenager) to become responsible for another human being without learning to be responsible for yourself first. This arrangement was set up for failure.
The flurry of phone calls does concern me as well. I know many point to past flurries and blow it off. But I'm still open to consider this significant.
I, too, see the majority of friends statements saying how "overprotective" Casey was and how loving she was with Caylee. Twos can be a rough age for some moms (although it was one of my favorite times!)....I would think there'd be many more friends/bfs saying she was "short with Caylee, or ignored her, or swatted her behind", etc.
A lot of daughter/mother relationships are strained, and CA and Casey had one of the worst arrangements I can think of. Casey was struggling with independence and trying to fit into a mold she was grossly ill-equipped to fill; and CA was trying to parent a kid she should have dealt with 10 years ago. It's very sad. But I'm not convinced that she snapped and killed her kid because she was mad at Cindy.
I do think, though, that if it was an accident, and she did discover Caylee was cold, she could very well have *snapped* at that point. She's been very limited in emotion....she's a very damaged person.
I don't read as much into the defense not pursuing the accident angle. No one has persuaded Casey into cutting a deal or have successfully talked her into taking this path. Doesn't mean they haven't tried, who knows. An accident angle is something the defendant would have to agree on. So the fact that they're not pursuing it, to me, doesn't mean that that's not what happened. JMO
Thank you for this post. I wish I had your writing skills. I do not agree with everything you say, but a lot of it I do. It is good for me to hear that Kc is not as bad as so many people say she is. Thought it was just me that thought that. Now if it is proven that she is guilty of premeditated murder in the first degree, then I will agree with LWOP.