I believe wholeheartedly that it was intentional. She was thinking about doing away with Caylee long before it happened. The fight just pushed that date up for Casey. In her letters, she mentions her plans getting tangled up. I think she meant her plans for killing Caylee. Because she can't control her temper, and because of the fight the night of the 15th, Caylee was murdered sooner than expected.
I do think she intended for Caylee's death to be an accident, thus the moving of the pool ladder. However, she murdered Caylee before she her accident scenario was to play out. Then she panicked because Caylee wasn't supposed to die the way she did, and Casey knew she couldn't play it off as an accident because of the duct tape, which I believe was the murder weapon. Caylee was probably screaming for Cindy over and over and Casey snapped, not able to take it anymore.
It's easy to make it look like you love someone, especially when you have someone else taking care of that child. Casey should have shouldered raising Caylee herself from the start, but in the interest of family image, Cindy took over and then didn't/couldn't let Caylee go. You can see in most pictures how Casey vies for just as much of attention as Caylee instead of letting her child BE the center of attention, which is what normal loving parents do. It's difficult to accept, but the rose colored glasses need to come off. Some parents do not love their own children, and even murder those children that they do not love. Just because you can get pregnant and give birth does not mean you know how to be or want to be a mother. Casey just doesn't have it in her to be a good mother or sacrifice herself for her child. She chose to sacrifice her child for herself instead.
I wish I had a link to that 2007 Christmas picture of Santa Claus in the middle with Casey alone on the left, and Caylee in Cindy's lap on the right. I thought it was vey telling. Why would Caylee not be on Casey's lap or Santa's lap in that picture? It tells me Cindy definitely saw herself as Caylee's mother and Casey was more of a sister than mother figure to Caylee.
Casey is also remorseless and delusional. She's never admitted to having ANYTHING to do with what happened to Caylee and just wants to move on with her life. And oh, at the last gasp, we should feel sorry for Casey because she was supposedly abused, not sorry for Caylee because she was murdered. We should excuse Casey for sacrificing Caylee because of what might or might not have happened to Casey. Caylee basically had to go because of Casey because Casey might have been abused. Once again, it's poor me, all about me with Casey. Abuse does not and never will make Caylee's murder acceptable, and it's disgusting the Casey would throw out abuse allegations to get more sympathy for HERSELF. This case has always and continues to be about Casey, never once has Casey even tried to make it about Caylee!
Casey has also never helped the police once and this whole case has been one big game to her. She's hating her parents because they didn't clean up the mess and make it go away. She's enjoying life in jail for Chrissakes, and her attorneys are her "boys" that will gt her out of this. She's more worried about her next meal or what she's going to do when she gets out than what she has done. That also tells me this was not an accident. It's just a mere inconvenience for Casey. How can a CHILD EVER BE just an INCONVENIENCE to a parent that really loves them?
I don't even have to go into the evidence, which all points at her and no one else. It also screams premeditation and intentional.
I will say it again, DUCT TAPE IS NEVER ACCIDENTAL! Not used a weapon, not in covering up something - and I have never heard of someone covering up an accident with duct tape over he mouth of the accident victim. Why? Because no one the planet accepts duct tape as an exuse for covering up an accident. It just doesn't happen and it only makes a person look even more guilty. And there are other ways people attemp to cover up an accident that does not involve duct tape. Why would anyone with a normal brain even think about using duct tape to cover up an accident?
I am sorry this was so long, but I had to get this out. I am so sick and tired of those who can not or will not see this case for what it simply is: a spoiled, selfish, remorseless princess didn't ever love her child and got rid of her child because she couldn't handle not being the center of attention in her family. There is no vast conspiracy against a lying, stealing, nobody that had no ambition in life and was never going to be a productive member of society. I know we are all entitled to our own opinions, and I respect that. But all common sense and logic here screams premeditation and an intentional murder, not an accident, IMO.
I have no sympathy for Casey or her family. Those who still can, well, I guess you're bigger people than I am. And those who think someone else did this, I just don't get how you look at the same evidence as I am and come to such a totally different conclusion.