I will just say that not every man out there who tries to help children and their mom is a "bad" guy. Seems like Mr Jack (as most people in the article comments call him) was just a truly caring individual.
And what about Big Brothers and Big Sisters? What about mentors?
And I personally know a gentlemen who is not the bio dad of 2 children but friends with the mom with many many years (no dating, no affair, no sexual feelings of any kind - just friends) who many would swear was the childrens father the way the kids and him are. They have not had a dad for many many years and this guy is their "father figure". They talk to him constantly, they spend weekends with him and his wife, they invite him to sporting and school events, they WANT to spend time with him. And I know for a fact 100% if not 200% that he would lay his life down for these children. And they are not his. But he is the next best thing....he is stability for them, he is a mentor to them, he is inspiration as to what they can acheive, he is a role model for them....he is everything that a dad should be - yet not their dad, or their stepdad, or even a blood relative. He has just known them since the day they were born and determined that they would have someone who they could trust and who would be there for them whenever, whereever....he is a true good guy. His wife married him knowing that these were not his children, yet he would never ever walk away from them.
I remember the saying "it takes a village to raise a child" Whatever happened to that? It sometimes seems that when someone is being a great friend, a help to the family, trying to make sure the kids are ok, etc that the "red flags" go up and they must have an ulterior motive. I truly believe that there are alot of decent, caring, helpful people out there. More than the true low lifes that do have ulterior motives, yet they are overlooked and suspicion cast upon them as soon as something happens. How many people went WTH for mom to have someone watching the kids? To me it seems that this man should be applauded for helping out and caring about children who were not his.
He is a victim in this terrible tragedy also.
Prayers for all of them and mom.