ATasteOfHoney
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Because there is as yet no evidence for his guilt.
There has to be a basis for belief, otherwise it is false belief.
IMO, the basis for belief is motive.
The pastor has a motive for getting rid of his wife. The motive is he was leading a "double life" and wanted to leave her (& the country) for another man. Additionally and due to his past financial history, another likely motive is money. These are the classic "two biggies" when it comes to why a murder is committed: a love triangle and money issues/needs.
I think what is being ignored here is the psychological/emotional aspect of what goes on when a person leads another life or a "double life" and how the emotions continue to torment and heat up. It must create havoc for everyone involved and drum up so many intensified emotions. It becomes a heated, crazy world full of angst for everyone involved in the sphere, even if they do not know exactly what is going on--they sense something isn't quite right. The pastors wife may have felt things in her 'gut' about the situation and questioned him constantly about finances and if he still loved her (behind closed doors). We may never know. And I'm sure the pastors sons have had a lot of questions and concerns along the way. Even the lover may have been putting pressure on the pastor to do something about this sad situation? We don't know.
When involved within the sphere of a person leading a double life, I can imagine these suspicions and feelings "speak" loudly and sometimes they must be "whispered" subliminally----what pressure to live with! It could almost cause one to go insane or do something really drastic. And that's my point.
Of course, I'm not trying to invoke empathy for the pastor by this post. I'm just trying to highlight that there is a psychological/emotional aspect that we may want to look at in lieu of just thinking analytically about this case.
All moo.....