I have several thoughts on this case. All of this is moo...
It doesn’t seem odd to me that Paighton, as a single adult female living in a Southern city (with Southern cities typically having high crime rates,) stays in regular, frequent contact with her immediate family. I live in the urban South and am close to several of my single adult female cousins, and all of them keep in contact with their folks/siblings like that. That amount of contact feels similar to how frequently I text my husband so that someone I trust can keep tabs on me for safety and security reasons. I imagine Paighton’s prior history of addiction would make her maintain even closer contact with those who love her and would also help her maintain her sobriety; I bet that her folks in particular would probably want to talk to her often because she is someone they have worried about historically (which would be normal for parents of a child who has had addiction issues in the past).
My cynical fear is that the co-worker who left her at the bar, maybe even the other co-workers who were there the night Paighton disappeared, their company, the Tin Roof, and the men Paighton were talking to might all be a bit more worried about CYA than getting Paighton home. I certainly hope I am wrong about all of that, of course. It feels like a perfect storm of circumstances contributed to her going missing, and in all likelihood no one wants to be identified as the last person seen with a missing person because that could kick up a huge lingering cloud of suspicion around that person, imho. (Think Terri Horman in the Kyron Horman case, for instance). I think whoever ultimately prevented Paighton from returning was someone she connected with after she left the bar; whether or not this was an intentional set-up or not I have no idea about. I don’t think the person or persons responsible for Paighton’s absence is on LE’s radar, nor do I think there is any footage of her leaving with him/them.
I am not sure what the staffing situation on law enforcement is in Birmingham; I know with where I live now and also where I am from the biggest cities have a lot of crime and only 50% of the number of law enforcement officers that they need, so crime is usually out of control in both of them. I worry that LE could still be scratching their heads not able to put the pieces together to bring her home due to lack of manpower/resources while precious time is being lost every second. I just think LE doesn’t have all the pieces yet, and I really hope they get them soon.
I wish the public knew more to help more. It worries me that the public is not being given much new info at all on this case. I don’t want Paighton to fade from anyone’s thoughts; I want her home safe with her family.
I also worry that Paighton’s age (being a grown woman who family says can take care of herself) and her prior addiction issue might influence law enforcement/the public not to treat this as urgently as I think it should be treated. From all reports thus far, Paighton’s disappearance is completely out of character. This, combined with the last text she sent, as well as the amount of time which has passed since she disappeared, ring a lot of danger bells for me.
My friends and I frequented pubs and bars when I was Paighton’s age. Texting is a much more subtle way to sound an alarm for help than a phone call would be. The text she sent made me think she was pressed for time and so she sent out the fastest SOS she could to let someone know to check on her. The first name to pull up in cell phones is the last person texted, so my guess is that this was the co-worker who had traveled over there with her. My thought is that the co-worker was who she believed she could reach the fastest when she realized she was in trouble. Also, if the co-worker lives close to the bar, it seems logical to me that from a geographical standpoint she thought her colleague could get to her fast if she needed her to. It is odd to me that the text was allegedly not seen and responded to for so long. Most women I know would not have left the female friend they went out with at a bar with 2 strange men and then not watched their phone like a hawk to keep an ear out for them afterwards even if they had done so. All of that feels very foreign and strange to me as far as what seems “normal” for 2 female friends traveling to a bar together. So, I wonder if the co-worker got the impression Paighton had some friendly acquaintanceship with the men already so she wasn’t as worried as she would have been if they were total strangers. Again, all of this is moo...
I check the news frequently and say prayers for her safe return home often. I earnestly hope we get good news about her soon.
#bringPaightonhomenow