Allison Baden-Clay - GENERAL DISCUSSION THREAD #36

[marlywings]

Thanks Gemini Girl & possumheart...much appreciated

 

[The Observer]

Hello all.

Firstly whilst I appear a newbie, I should tell you I’m far from it. I’ve been an avid reader of websleuths for many years more so since the murder of Kiesha Weippart.

I have read all 36 threads and every single post so you won’t see me asking newbie questions. I’m an avid true crime enthusiast and love to do my own ‘amateur studies’. I will admit that I only now joined to view member attachments. As I've read how great the pictures of the creek are. I didn’t join earlier because quite frankly I’d probably never shut up with my 2c. I showed restraint until now lol.

I have been to Brookfield, Kenmore, Indro, Toowong and Kholo. I even stood right next to the Prado to see the damage for myself whilst in the Tower carpark. Not sure if any of you will recall but my friend (whom is a poster here) and I were the ones that discounted the windows of the GBC house being boarded up. We went there to sus it out and we saw no such thing.

Firstly not sure if it’s been mentioned or not but Rob Cheesman indeed went to school with GBC and OW in Toowoomba. So it appears this ‘friendship’ has possibly stemmed from many years ago.

I also wanted to add my 2c regarding TM. Whilst I can sympathise to a minute degree that she was somewhat ‘played’ by GBC I personally believe she is far from innocent in this case. I believe IMO that she knew what he had planned to an extent. TM was happy to still be with him and ‘protect’ him until she found out he had cheated on her. This to me speaks volumes. 4.5 years is a full fledge long term intimate relationship and not an affair. You don’t befriend a woman, her children, her inlaws and behind the scenes be sleeping with her husband. FOR YEARS. IMO I believe she is has similar personality traits to that of GBC. Call it gut instinct if you will.

Bring on Sept 3rd!

P.s Marly congrats. You are indeed the queen of links!

 

[Dodo]

Dear marlywings. You truly are a whizz and here's me still unable to link ( still in the 90's - the 1890's lol). Everyone is congratulating you, whereas I feel like I kinda need to warn you - have you seen how some of these people behave??!!! Lol. As the mother of six children, I have to 'moderate' them regularly and do so willingly as it's my labour of love. You don't have to take on such a 'challenging' roll - far harder than controlling six kids - but you have accepted this role with poise and grace and I am a bit in awe of you. Coming a close second are many of these wonderful people whom you now have to take under your guiding wing. Don't worry, I'll go quietly if you have to dispense 'loving'
discipline my way. Heheheheh

 

[possumheart]

Respectfully snipped

Firstly not sure if it’s been mentioned or not but Rob Cheesman indeed went to school with GBC and OW in Toowoomba. So it appears this ‘friendship’ has possibly stemmed from many years ago.

Not surprised as he links to a refrigeration company which is as Toowoomba as lamingtons.

4.5 years is a full fledge long term intimate relationship and not an affair. You don’t befriend a woman, her children, her inlaws and behind the scenes be sleeping with her husband. FOR YEARS.

That makes me so sad as the littlest girl is only five ... I can't possibly imagine the conscience (or lack of) that could justify having an affair with someone with a wife with a tiny baby.

MOO

 

[Gemini Girl]

Hello all.

Firstly whilst I appear a newbie, I should tell you I’m far from it. I’ve been an avid reader of websleuths for many years more so since the murder of Kiesha Weippart.

I have read all 36 threads and every single post so you won’t see me asking newbie questions. I’m an avid true crime enthusiast and love to do my own ‘amateur studies’. I will admit that I only now joined to view member attachments. As I've read how great the pictures of the creek are. I didn’t join earlier because quite frankly I’d probably never shut up with my 2c. I showed restraint until now lol.

I have been to Brookfield, Kenmore, Indro, Toowong and Kholo. I even stood right next to the Prado to see the damage for myself whilst in the Tower carpark. Not sure if any of you will recall but my friend (whom is a poster here) and I were the ones that discounted the windows of the GBC house being boarded up. We went there to sus it out and we saw no such thing.

Firstly not sure if it’s been mentioned or not but Rob Cheesman indeed went to school with GBC and OW in Toowoomba. So it appears this ‘friendship’ has possibly stemmed from many years ago.

I also wanted to add my 2c regarding TM. Whilst I can sympathise to a minute degree that she was somewhat ‘played’ by GBC I personally believe she is far from innocent in this case. I believe IMO that she knew what he had planned to an extent. TM was happy to still be with him and ‘protect’ him until she found out he had cheated on her. This to me speaks volumes. 4.5 years is a full fledge long term intimate relationship and not an affair. You don’t befriend a woman, her children, her inlaws and behind the scenes be sleeping with her husband. FOR YEARS. IMO I believe she is has similar personality traits to that of GBC. Call it gut instinct if you will.

Bring on Sept 3rd!

P.s Marly congrats. You are indeed the queen of links!

Welcome Observer!

:welcome:

you certainly have shown restraint if you have been lurking for that long lol

:floorlaugh:

JMO MOO

 

[Liadan]

Hello all.



I also wanted to add my 2c regarding TM. Whilst I can sympathise to a minute degree that she was somewhat ‘played’ by GBC I personally believe she is far from innocent in this case. I believe IMO that she knew what he had planned to an extent. TM was happy to still be with him and ‘protect’ him until she found out he had cheated on her. This to me speaks volumes. 4.5 years is a full fledge long term intimate relationship and not an affair. You don’t befriend a woman, her children, her inlaws and behind the scenes be sleeping with her husband. FOR YEARS. IMO I believe she is has similar personality traits to that of GBC. Call it gut instinct if you will.


Welcome The Observer - look forward to many more posts!

I do agree that TM was ready to get down and jiggly with GBC and had mentally put herself above Allison and the girls by the time that Allison had discovered the affair was ongoing. Allison would have been fed such shyte from GBC and poor Allison still wanting to make her marriage work.

But Obbie, could you just clarify this pink bit? Was GBC with both TM and ex Mr TM or am I completely off the planet here with my comprehension?????

Also just a quick message to Linette - I have that log in log out trouble some days too and other days it just goes away. HANG IN THERE!

 

[The Observer]

That makes me so sad as the littlest girl is only five ... I can't possibly imagine the conscience (or lack of) that could justify having an affair with someone with a wife with a tiny baby.

MOO

Exactly. So whilst Allison was possibly suffering PND as her friend is quoted as saying she suffered from depression during pregancies etc.. and she needed him most, he's off getting attention elsewhere. IMO

Welcome Observer!
you certainly have shown restraint if you have been lurking for that long lol

:floorlaugh:

JMO MOO

Trust me, it has not been easy LOL. Not one iota.

Welcome The Observer - look forward to many more posts!

But Obbie, could you just clarify this pink bit? Was GBC with both TM and ex Mr TM or am I completely off the planet here with my comprehension?????

Thanks Liadan

Sorry, I meant whilst TM was befriending Allison and her family.. she (TM) was sleeping with Allison's husband. Hope that clears it up.

 

[marlywings]

Hello all.

Firstly whilst I appear a newbie, I should tell you I’m far from it. I’ve been an avid reader of websleuths for many years more so since the murder of Kiesha Weippart.

I have read all 36 threads and every single post so you won’t see me asking newbie questions. I’m an avid true crime enthusiast and love to do my own ‘amateur studies’. I will admit that I only now joined to view member attachments. As I've read how great the pictures of the creek are. I didn’t join earlier because quite frankly I’d probably never shut up with my 2c. I showed restraint until now lol.

I have been to Brookfield, Kenmore, Indro, Toowong and Kholo. I even stood right next to the Prado to see the damage for myself whilst in the Tower carpark. Not sure if any of you will recall but my friend (whom is a poster here) and I were the ones that discounted the windows of the GBC house being boarded up. We went there to sus it out and we saw no such thing.

Firstly not sure if it’s been mentioned or not but Rob Cheesman indeed went to school with GBC and OW in Toowoomba. So it appears this ‘friendship’ has possibly stemmed from many years ago.

I also wanted to add my 2c regarding TM. Whilst I can sympathise to a minute degree that she was somewhat ‘played’ by GBC I personally believe she is far from innocent in this case. I believe IMO that she knew what he had planned to an extent. TM was happy to still be with him and ‘protect’ him until she found out he had cheated on her. This to me speaks volumes. 4.5 years is a full fledge long term intimate relationship and not an affair. You don’t befriend a woman, her children, her inlaws and behind the scenes be sleeping with her husband. FOR YEARS. IMO I believe she is has similar personality traits to that of GBC. Call it gut instinct if you will.

Bring on Sept 3rd!

P.s Marly congrats. You are indeed the queen of links!

Hi The Observer & thankyou....Welcome aboard also...glad you've now joined in posting

 

[marlywings]

Dear marlywings. You truly are a whizz and here's me still unable to link ( still in the 90's - the 1890's lol). Everyone is congratulating you, whereas I feel like I kinda need to warn you - have you seen how some of these people behave??!!! Lol. As the mother of six children, I have to 'moderate' them regularly and do so willingly as it's my labour of love. You don't have to take on such a 'challenging' roll - far harder than controlling six kids - but you have accepted this role with poise and grace and I am a bit in awe of you. Coming a close second are many of these wonderful people whom you now have to take under your guiding wing. Don't worry, I'll go quietly if you have to dispense 'loving'
discipline my way. Heheheheh

Thanks Dodo...much appreciated.

I think majority know the drill on here now so hoping they'll all behave for me

 

[Thinking]

Yes congrats marlywings

Agreed - congratulations marlywings!

 

[marlywings]

Thankyou Thinking....much appreciated

 

[linette]

Hello all.



I also wanted to add my 2c regarding TM. Whilst I can sympathise to a minute degree that she was somewhat ‘played’ by GBC I personally believe she is far from innocent in this case. I believe IMO that she knew what he had planned to an extent. TM was happy to still be with him and ‘protect’ him until she found out he had cheated on her. This to me speaks volumes. 4.5 years is a full fledge long term intimate relationship and not an affair. You don’t befriend a woman, her children, her inlaws and behind the scenes be sleeping with her husband. FOR YEARS. IMO I believe she is has similar personality traits to that of GBC. Call it gut instinct if you will.


Welcome The Observer - look forward to many more posts!

I do agree that TM was ready to get down and jiggly with GBC and had mentally put herself above Allison and the girls by the time that Allison had discovered the affair was ongoing. Allison would have been fed such shyte from GBC and poor Allison still wanting to make her marriage work.

But Obbie, could you just clarify this pink bit? Was GBC with both TM and ex Mr TM or am I completely off the planet here with my comprehension?????

Also just a quick message to Linette - I have that log in log out trouble some days too and other days it just goes away. HANG IN THERE!

I think when 'her' is written it is referring to Allison {not TM}, therefore TM befriended Allison, Allison's in-law's etc. lol I do know what you meant though, if you read it as though GBC is befriending, it could mean he was sleeping with TM's hubby. OMG, now wouldn't that be a turn up? haha:floorlaugh:

As for log in issues, yeah, even when I log out I'm still logged in, so it's one extreme or the other. Oh well.

 

[Rational]

I think when 'her' is written it is referring to Allison {not TM}, therefore TM befriended Allison, Allison's in-law's etc. lol I do know what you meant though, if you read it as though GBC is befriending, it could mean he was sleeping with TM's hubby. OMG, now wouldn't that be a turn up? haha:floorlaugh:

As for log in issues, yeah, even when I log out I'm still logged in, so it's one extreme or the other. Oh well.

Much betterthis extreme than the other!!

Ps Marywings great to see your name in bold!!!

 

[Liadan]

Hey thanks everyone - that thanks button is not behaving for me at all today!
Thanks Linette, and our newest poster Obby- I got the drift now.

Thinking GBC probly could have played both sides of the fence and thought someone might have had proof positive of this.

 

[Fuskier]

... I personally believe she is far from innocent in this case... that she knew what he had planned to an extent ... was happy to be with him and ‘protect’ him ... until she found out he had cheated on her. 4.5 years is a full fledge long term intimate relationship and not an affair. You don’t befriend a woman, her children, her inlaws and behind the scenes be sleeping with her husband... FOR YEARS!

Observer, I agree with you regarding the long term relationship. IMO she was happy to be 'with him' collusively until QPolice informed her that he had two other affairs going on. Agree that 4+ years is a long term relationship, not an affair. My opinion only, not fact.

 

[minni]

Hello all.

Firstly whilst I appear a newbie, I should tell you I’m far from it. I’ve been an avid reader of websleuths for many years more so since the murder of Kiesha Weippart.

I have read all 36 threads and every single post so you won’t see me asking newbie questions. I’m an avid true crime enthusiast and love to do my own ‘amateur studies’. I will admit that I only now joined to view member attachments. As I've read how great the pictures of the creek are. I didn’t join earlier because quite frankly I’d probably never shut up with my 2c. I showed restraint until now lol.

I have been to Brookfield, Kenmore, Indro, Toowong and Kholo. I even stood right next to the Prado to see the damage for myself whilst in the Tower carpark. Not sure if any of you will recall but my friend (whom is a poster here) and I were the ones that discounted the windows of the GBC house being boarded up. We went there to sus it out and we saw no such thing.

Firstly not sure if it’s been mentioned or not but Rob Cheesman indeed went to school with GBC and OW in Toowoomba. So it appears this ‘friendship’ has possibly stemmed from many years ago.

I also wanted to add my 2c regarding TM. Whilst I can sympathise to a minute degree that she was somewhat ‘played’ by GBC I personally believe she is far from innocent in this case. I believe IMO that she knew what he had planned to an extent. TM was happy to still be with him and ‘protect’ him until she found out he had cheated on her. This to me speaks volumes. 4.5 years is a full fledge long term intimate relationship and not an affair. You don’t befriend a woman, her children, her inlaws and behind the scenes be sleeping with her husband. FOR YEARS. IMO I believe she is has similar personality traits to that of GBC. Call it gut instinct if you will.

Bring on Sept 3rd!

P.s Marly congrats. You are indeed the queen of links!

:welcome4: Observer!!

I agree with you in your comments about TM. I think the police very carefully and strategically broke her down with the interviews, then dropped the A bomb, taking advantage of her reaction to this news, knowing she would explode with anger and hurt.

The fact that she would spill everything she could in order to hurt him back, surely must have been the plan and it worked extremely well if you ask me. Very clever, and calculating. And necessary :cow:

 

[Fuskier]

Exactly. So whilst Allison was possibly suffering PND as her friend is quoted as saying she suffered from depression during pregancies etc.. and she needed him most, he's off getting attention elsewhere. IMO ...

The 'its all about me types' tend to do that - unfortunately. It sounds like he was one of those. But, on the otherhand, there are plenty of good men who recognise the investment in their own family and its future. They stand by their partners and build a strong family unit together. IMO.

 

[Nads]

Perhaps TM spilled her guts because of evidence that he (allegedly now) committed murder. Rather than that he cheated on her.

 

[AAAA]

Another quiet night

 

[Aunty]

Yes congrats marlywings

And congrats from me too , Marlywings, You are very smart and much loved here. Xx