No, I don't think the problem with quoting negative attributes is that they're negative - the problem for me is that they seem to come out of thin air because people are trying to come up with a motivation for her to wish harm. I look for supporting testimony of some kind, and I'm not finding it.
I'm not that familiar with the Arias case, but IIRC there was someone who claimed to be an ex-boyfriend who said she stalked him in the same way:
"HLN host and journalist Jane Velez-Mitchell revealed new details about the Jodi Arias murder case, telling "Extra," "The biggest thing I found out that didn't come up in the trial is that Jodi Arias had stalked another boyfriend before
many years before... in pretty much the exact same way that she stalked Travis Alexander and terrorized Travis."
I have not heard of any such stalking being made known of a previous boyfriend, but I'm sure there was. I'm sure she, to some degree "stalked" all her ex-boyfriends. We heard some things here and there like about how they would cheat on her and she would want to get back together with them, but never outright stalking allegations. There could not even be outright stalking allegations towards Travis, because there was never a restraining order put out against her.
My point was, that with all the media attention surrounding the case, for goodness sake, being on HLN 24-7, and I followed the case throughout, and I did not hear much of anything negative coming from her past.
"the problem for me is that they seem to come out of thin air"- so where are the positive attributes coming from? I realize it must be an accumulation of things you have read about her in various places.
To me, she is lying about many things in her case. MOO. That leads me to believe that she is not the perfect little rose she is being made out to be. And it is not only "lying under pressure" during her interrogations. There are many things outside of interrogations. And even in her book years later, which she would have no reason to lie about.
I know you think accusing Patrick was all a big mistake, but I think she was doing it to put the blame on someone else for her own actions. That leads me to believe there is something in her character which allows for her to think it's ok to do that, to get herself out of something by inventing some story, some lie, or by placing the blame on someone else.
As usual, the difference is how we view her comes from our own different perspectives.
You can surely imagine how, if I look at the evidence and come to a conclusion that she's guilty, that would necessarily mean she has lied about things. And how all her lies and how this whole case and the way she has handled it will come across to me.