I am not bashing her b/c she is living her life on her term. And personally, I think it is a bit ridiculous to jump to that conclusion. I don't think it is absurd to not like the lifestyle of a woman who is clearly doesn't respect boundaries. She started an affair with Brad Pitt while he was married. Don't get me wrong, I blame him just as much as I blame her. However, she should have enough respect for herself and the sanctity of marriage to not become involved with a married man, much less announce your pregnancy when the ink is barely dry on his divorce papers.
I am not doubting she is a good mother, although I wish she would stop carrying Maddox around so much and let him walk more. As I said before, I think her charitable contributions are to be respected. How come whenever one woman doesn't care for another, so many are quick to label it jealousy? Can't I just not like the woman?
People in Hollywood do this, yes. However, don't sit there and complain about the paparazzi attention and your lack of privacy and then turn around and tip them off to your comings and goings to get your "family" pictures in the public eye as an attempt to soften your image. Did anyone see the layout for W magazine that came out before Brad and Jen announced their divorce? She orchestrated that entire layout which depicted them as a family - shots of them playing house and rolling around a bed together. It was promotion for their movie, clearly, but if you are trying to put a stop to rumors of an affair, that was certainly not the way to do it. That layout was so disrespectful on so many different levels. Brad is just as guilty for not realizing how insensitive this would be to his wife.
SHE WORE A VIAL WITH HIS BLOOD IN IT AROUND HER NECK. You don't think that is unusual for her age group? Come on. She even admitted that while she married Johnny Lee Miller (another former co-star, sensing a pattern here) she wrote his name in her blood across her white shirt.

She also had an affair with model/heroin addict Jenny Sch (can't remember her last name), whom I believe she met while filming GIA.
As for her brother, doesn't anyone remember the Golden Globes or some award show where everyone was horrified by the open mouth kiss she gave her brother (who by the way, she honored both him and her former boyfriend Timothy Hutton by tattooing the letter H on her inner wrist).
As for her not having many husbands, I guess we will see. However, Brad will be number 3 in case you are counting at home.
My final beef with her - it is really hard to adopt an Asian boy as a few of my friends and relatives have found out. Yet she had no problem getting Maddoxx when you know very well that a normal person would have to go through years of bureacratic red tape.
Finally to end this ridiculously long post and step off my soapbox - I do agree that she does a lot of good in the world. However, I don't think that excuses her behavorial issues.