Let me ask you married ladies a question. There seems to be a lot of hatred for BP and/or AJ but......
Haven't you ever met someone other than your spouse that you felt an instant connection with? Someone that you adore so much and desperately want to just ravage? Not that you necessarily would but the thought goes through your mind that "if only I wasn't married, I would jump your bones?". Or you think "why couldn't I have met this person first?".
I am happily married and have never strayed. But I can tell you that there is one person that has such a hold on me and such an emotional/sex appeal that if she said "hey, let's go" I don't think I could say no. It isn't all physical, in fact, I would say it is more of an emotional connection more than physical. There are a lot of women with better bodies. But everything about her is amazing. There have been so many times that I will be talking to her and looking her in the eyes and it is all I can do not to grab her up and kiss her. It is really torture to the point that I try to avoid her so that she won't see it on my face. There is no danger of reciprocation so it isn't a real problem but it is painful to be around this woman. Isn't there someone like that in your life?
Don't worry, I won't be embarrased if you admit that it is me.
Maybe that is what is at play here, an instant connection? Maybe their marriage was over long before AJ showed up. I dunno. I saw an interview with JA long before they broke up--to the tune of a year or better--and Brad was nowhere to be found. Rumors were already swirling then.
Cal