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There are many people, myself included, don't believe in an open casket. I believe in remembering your loved one the way they looked in life, not in death.
It is A PERSONAL CHOICE.
There are many people, myself included, don't believe in an open casket. I believe in remembering your loved one the way they looked in life, not in death.
I'm totally not trying to be snarky, I just want to know why it matters exactly the spot of her grave for our purposes? Is there something I'm missing?
My brother was pronounced at 12:01 on Friday, August 13, 1982. He was murdered August 12, 1982. The pronouncement was a technicality in the ER as it was the time the ER physician came in to his room.
My brother's tombstone says August 12, 1982 as that was the date he was taken from us so violently. The death certificate reads the 13th. It didn'tmatter. We also had a closed casket for my brother as we preferred to remember him full of life. In my mind's eye however, I still see him on the stretcher in the ER. It has never left me in 32 years....
There is a sign at the back of building that said security cameras on premises.
But that back door was open! No cars there and no one answered when I said Helloooooo anyone here? Weird! Sorry I wasn't more help. All this accomplished for me is to confirm she was buried beyond the gate of the plant somewhere.
You're either a very, very dedicated & brave sleuth or crazy as heck, LOL. Thank you for the photos.
I may go to his trial. I watch trials on TV when I can, would like to go in person to one. Although this high profile case may be a full house and difficult to get in.I'm crazy as heck. But, it's the crazy ones that don't know they are crAzy that you have to worry about. Lol. I'm harmless. I just wanted to see if I could help with any information since it's so close.
My husband is scolding me for doing it alone. I said okay, next time I try to sleuth a place I'll take you with me. [emoji33][emoji23]