ZooSleuth
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This is probably not the right place to post this...I'm new to this message board and if anyone could point me in the right direction I would appreciate it.
It appears that a lot of people on the message board are here because their lives have in some way been touched by a violent crime. My question is, to those of you who have been through similar circumstances, what advice, suggestions, ect would you have for CL ex in regards to parenting his children through this tragedy? There's plenty of books/websites out there for parenting through divorce, children and grief, ect but I have yet to find the book titled "my children's mother is in jail on capital murder for dummys"
FYI he has read this message board and appreciated those of you who have expressed kind words and sympathy's for him and his children. He chooses not to post anything here or anywhere for a variety of reasons including but not limited to he will not speak negativity about CL to his children or in public, and he's focusing his time and attention on the children's well being.
Some people either privately or not-so-privately wish their ex-spouses would fall off a cliff or take some perverted pleasure in seeing their ex-spouse's suffer in some way ie another divorce, loss of a job, trouble with LE. Crystal's ex is NOT one of those people...post divorce he wishes nothing but the best for her as she moved forward with her life. He was proud of her and happy for her that she was going back school. He very much hopes that Crystal was not involved in this crime both for the sake of his children and for Crystal as a person.
Don't take this the wrong way, but Beverly Carter and her family are not the only victims of this crime. They are the MAIN VICTIMS....but not the only victims. Crystal's children are victims too.
I would say to him, prepare your kids for the reality that their mother may end up in prison for a really long time, if not the rest of her life, if he hasn't done this already. Maybe wait until he hears the evidence against her before doing that though.