Found Deceased Australia - Karen Ristevski, 47, Melbourne, Vic, 29 June 2016 - #8

[Hbayne]

I don't think AR is a gutless fool I think he is in a bad space at the moment. He did say yesterday to me that he was going to go and pay his respects by attending the funeral but was concerned his presence might damage the atmosphere especially with so much media there when it was all about family and friends paying their final goodbyes to Karen so maybe those feelings made him change his mind. I cant condone some of his thoughts from the start and am not in any position to comment on them but i do believe
that he is genuinely feeling the loss of Karen like many others that were close to her. We all have different ways of expressing a close loss and before Karens body was found AR firmly believed that Karen had dissapeared on her own accord. Knowing now that Karen is truly gone and the isolation from his and her family (understandably from some i realise why ) and if he feels that someone who was once close to him might be involved then it would be hard for anyone to handle.
Not making excuses for his some of his past actions but it has been hard for me to think of a possible senario so it must be doing AR's head in a lot worse than mine if he is considering what may have possibly occurred. His father is the main suspect in the murder of his step-mother.
I think AR is apololgising in his own way for not been there today when really he wanted to be.and maybe he feels as though he let Karen down by not attending.
Its just all a horrible situation and has had that many twists and turns i doubt Hollywood would buy it for a script as no one would believe the story so far and we havent even got close to finishing it yet. Thats the scary part for me not knowing yet where and how its all going to end up.

Thanks Steve, that's great insight from someone who would know better than any of us . I just can't bare the fact that he posts about her being a paediohile ect and rubbish about keeping to himself and all that rubbish. Condolences to you and your extended family.

 

[steve richardson]

I dont think AR does read this site as i did show him a snapshot of a couple of posts in last 48 hours and he asked where they were from. I think if he did post here then with his unique way of expressing himself and his thoughts the many sharpies here would definitely have linked it up.

 

[Karinna]

I wonder what the real reason for AR not attending is though? Being that he is a messed up person there could be something else he's not telling? We just don't know at this stage and can only speculate. And how often have police said that they don't think such & such is involved in a murder, but turns out they are the culprits in the end.

 

[Lou Lou]

Yes I do, I think it's quite possible he posts here too

Gees..I wish he would, I hear all bout the "Ants nest" & "Ants are marching" but have no access to FB to check out what is said/written. I had a gander through my sons FB account, but wasn't able to find him.
I'm surprised he hasn't popped up in this thread, purely for the attention he would receive! I'm sure most of us would be (excitedly) interested in him answering a few of our Q's?

 

[Hbayne]

I dont think AR does read this site as i did show him a snapshot of a couple of posts in last 48 hours and he asked where they were from. I think if he did post here then with his unique way of expressing himself and his thoughts the many sharpies here would definitely have linked it up.

He knows about this site though as in his earlier now deleted posts it was mentioned. Surely he would , he comes across as someone who would be all over it ?

 

[purpleandgreen]

Well, it would appear that you were bang on with that though, Hbayne!

Sorry for double post was trying to correct spelling, particularly as I just called AR illiterate !

 

[purpleandgreen]

BBM The best favour he could do for himself and Karen it would seem would be to stay off FB altogether. Not to mention the drugs. And perhaps he could learn English.

Thanks Steve, that's great insight from someone who would know better than any of us . I just can't bare the fact that he posts about her being a paediohile ect and rubbish about keeping to himself and all that rubbish. Condolences to you and your extended family.

 

[Hbayne]

BBM The best favour he could do for himself and Karen it would seem would be to stay off FB altogether. Not to mention the drugs. And perhaps he could learn English.

Oops and I meant paedophile ?

 

[UndiscoveredTruth]

I dont think AR does read this site as i did show him a snapshot of a couple of posts in last 48 hours and he asked where they were from. I think if he did post here then with his unique way of expressing himself and his thoughts the many sharpies here would definitely have linked it up.

Thanks, Steve. Personally, I think he does read here. In the past he has even mentioned Websleuths and even gone as far as mentioning several members names. He's either reading here, or someone (not you, because this was a while back not recent) is passing information/comments onto him. It doesn't matter, we all made it known he was very welcome to join us and become a verified member so we could get to know him and his side of the story. It obviously wasn't important and there wasn't anything for him to tell, hence why he never joined. Ah well. I will give credit where due though and say I'm pleased he had the decency to stay away today and let Karen's family and friends pay their respects and say their final goodbye to Karen. It looks to have been a beautiful send off. My heart is still very heavy and I'm deeply saddened by it all.

 

[steve richardson]

Hbayne i can't believe the pedophile storys either and i got into some heated communication with AR over it and told him i wouldnt believe it and what i thought of him for having it come out when the main focus was on finding Karen but in retrospect its hard saying
someone has fabricated the story when i cant prove otherwise and the person concerned is no longer here to discount the stories. I maintain myself i am 99% sure it didnt happen but will allow 1% doubt but even then i feel like i am letting Karen down for considering that at all.

 

[Karinna]

In the msn article it states Karen's phone pinged in 3 locations, and one of them was Diggers Rest along the Calder highway. Doesn't AR live in that location?
(quote)
Mrs Ristevski's mobile phone was reportedly tracked near Gisborne, 40km northwest of the family home in Avondale Heights, while her husband's was tracked on the same highway, at Diggers Rest, about 20km northwest of the home.
https://au.news.yahoo.com/vic/a/324...family-evil-stranger-abducted-his-wife/#page1

 

[steve richardson]

Yes maybe you guys are correct he does know about this site and it was a generalization question asking as to where the posts where from.

 

[emirates1957]

I don't think AR is a gutless fool I think he is in a bad space at the moment. He did say yesterday to me that he was going to go and pay his respects by attending the funeral but was concerned his presence might damage the atmosphere especially with so much media there when it was all about family and friends paying their final goodbyes to Karen so maybe those feelings made him change his mind. I cant condone some of his thoughts from the start and am not in any position to comment on them but i do believe
that he is genuinely feeling the loss of Karen like many others that were close to her. We all have different ways of expressing a close loss and before Karens body was found AR firmly believed that Karen had dissapeared on her own accord. Knowing now that Karen is truly gone and the isolation from his and her family (understandably from some i realise why ) and if he feels that someone who was once close to him might be involved then it would be hard for anyone to handle.
Not making excuses for his some of his past actions but it has been hard for me to think of a possible senario so it must be doing AR's head in a lot worse than mine if he is considering what may have possibly occurred. His father is the main suspect in the murder of his step-mother.
I think AR is apololgising in his own way for not been there today when really he wanted to be.and maybe he feels as though he let Karen down by not attending.
Its just all a horrible situation and has had that many twists and turns i doubt Hollywood would buy it for a script as no one would believe the story so far and we havent even got close to finishing it yet. Thats the scary part for me not knowing yet where and how its all going to end up.

What a shame Steve, this must have been so hard for you and members of Karen's family. I drove past St Johns this afternoon and had a tear. A funeral is devastating to attend, then add the fact your sibling has been murdered must make it 10 fold. Thank you for updating us, let's hope justice prevails sooner rather than later.

 

[Hbayne]

Hbayne i can't believe the pedophile storys either and i got into some heated communication with AR over it and told him i wouldnt believe it and what i thought of him for having it come out when the main ficus was on finding Karen but in retrospect its hard saying
someone has fabricated the story when i cant prove otherwise and the person concerned is no longer here to discount the stories. I maintain myself i am 99% sure it didnt happen but will allow 1% doubt but even then i feel like i am letting Karen down for considering that at all.

Thanks Steve, it must be tough and I agree on that 1%doubt you must have. I don't think he is involved but I think he is getting off on the attention he seems to so desperately need.

 

[Itsapuzzle]

Was that CR in the blue suit, minus beanie?

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[sosocurious]

I dont think AR does read this site as i did show him a snapshot of a couple of posts in last 48 hours and he asked where they were from. I think if he did post here then with his unique way of expressing himself and his thoughts the many sharpies here would definitely have linked it up.

Steve you said back in the thread that you had only met SR a couple of times and Boris only the once.
Do you know AR well?
I just assumed that if you had showed him snap shots you must be communicating with him.

 

[Hbayne]

I'm 99% sure he grilled websleuths and Steve on his earlier posts. I could be wrong but I'm sure this happened

 

[tiddles24]

I don't think AR is a gutless fool I think he is in a bad space at the moment. He did say yesterday to me that he was going to go and pay his respects by attending the funeral but was concerned his presence might damage the atmosphere especially with so much media there when it was all about family and friends paying their final goodbyes to Karen so maybe those feelings made him change his mind. I cant condone some of his thoughts from the start and am not in any position to comment on them but i do believe
that he is genuinely feeling the loss of Karen like many others that were close to her. We all have different ways of expressing a close loss and before Karens body was found AR firmly believed that Karen had dissapeared on her own accord. Knowing now that Karen is truly gone and the isolation from his and her family (understandably from some i realise why ) and if he feels that someone who was once close to him might be involved then it would be hard for anyone to handle.
Not making excuses for his some of his past actions but it has been hard for me to think of a possible senario so it must be doing AR's head in a lot worse than mine if he is considering what may have possibly occurred. His father is the main suspect in the murder of his step-mother.
I think AR is apololgising in his own way for not been there today when really he wanted to be.and maybe he feels as though he let Karen down by not attending.
Its just all a horrible situation and has had that many twists and turns i doubt Hollywood would buy it for a script as no one would believe the story so far and we havent even got close to finishing it yet. Thats the scary part for me not knowing yet where and how its all going to end up.

You have shown kindness towards AR in this post, Steve...Do you know him very well?...Have you tried to help him in any way (rehab and mental health issues)?...
At the beginning of your post, Steve, you stated that he is in a "bad space at the moment"...It appears that he has been in this bad space for a very long time and needs immediate help...I don't like to think about what could happen next.

 

[they'll get you]

Dead right, TGY. I wonder what it is he 'can't explain'?

Unbloodybelievable! The gutless wonder was about a block away but oh he could see the steeple!

Ya don't need a long neck to be a goose!

 

[sosocurious]

Unbloodybelievable! The gutless wonder was about a block away but oh he could see the steeple!

Ya don't need a long neck to be a goose!

You have such a way with words TGY :floorlaugh: