This is so horribly sad. My heart is truly breaking right now. I hate stories like this....
About 6 years ago around here, an autistic boy about 5 years old went missing and it turns out he had climbed high on top of one of those huge electrical things (not sure what they're called..they're kind of like a tower, but hollow, and kind of shaped like the eiffel tower) and he was up there for hours and hours and wouldn't come down. They had a fire ladder truck parked next to it and they still couldn't safely get him because he wouldn't let go and let himself be coaxed down by the firefighters. His older brother was very close to him, so they let his older brother climb up there and he was able to get him to give him to the firefighters. He only trusted his older brother. Thank God it ended happily.
I don't have an autistic child, but I've always been interested in it and have read books upon books upon books regarding it, attended seminars, and soaked up any info I can in an attempt to determine the cause. It's mind-boggling...the incidences of autism diagnoses have risen dramatically in the last decade, and continues to rise at an alarming rate each and every year. I feel that science is very close to finding the cause. For a long time I was on the "vaccine related bandwagon", but I'm not so sure now. In a way I feel like when we do find out the cause, it might be like "it was there in front of us the whole time!" Like the answers to this are hiding in plain sight.
I have the utmost respect for families of autistic children and know that they have an immensely difficult job in ensuring the safety of their children, let alone all the other issues that come along with having an autistic child. I hope that one day soon the world will be able to uncover the secret and answer the questions regarding the origins of this. I do know that these are very special children.