AZ AZ - Allison Feldman, 31, Scottsdale, 18 Feb 2015 #2

[Dee20912]

Exactly!

Another thing that has nagged at me from the beginning is his call to 911 after he found her body. His comments to the operator when she asked him if Allison was still alive: "I didn't touch her" "I didn't do anything".

How could one be so 'collected' after such a gruesome discovery finding your loved one brutally murdered. Why would your answers be ones that indicated you were not responsible? That seems very strange to me.

I don't think if you had just found the love of your life brutally murdered you would be thinking of preserving the crime scene, or not touching the body because someone might think you did it. I would think you would want to check to see if she was still alive no matter how much blood there was.

I can't even imagine not checking, no matter what the circumstances!

No, not typical behaviors.....

Regardless of what I saw, I would have called an ambulance...not the police.

 

[enzeder]

Yes, this was a more current report than the first one from her father. As I recall, the mother was out of town when she learned of Allison's murder. She was a flight attendant. Reports were that she had to be carried off the plane.

BBM

"Her sister Kelly Feldman Weinblatt said that she “lost it” when she heard the news as she was trying to put her kids to bed. “I started screaming my head off,” she said. Allison’s mom Elayne had to be taken off the airplane–where she works as a flight attendant–on a stretcher. It is just incomprehensible, inconsolable, omnipresent grief."
February 24, 2015: http://tcjewfolk.com/remembering-allison-feldman/#sthash.sMHaHeHw.dpuf

 

[MissD]

Whoever murdered that beautiful bright and shining star must be brought to justice! I am so grateful to all of you who are putting so much thought and time into this case that happened only a few blocks away from me.

Thank you, no matter who you are or what your theory! All theories are important.

We are not in competition here. We are all just trying to get at the truth, as we see it. And with what little information we have at hand.

Cheers!

 

[Dee20912]

I've never read that the BF called Allison that day. MSM reports say that it was Allison's father who called the BF to check on his daughter.

"Harley says he called Allison's boyfriend to check on his daughter after not hearing from her all day on Tuesday."
Feb 19, 2015: http://www.abc15.com/news/region-no...-in-scottsdale-say-daugther-was-perfect-child

"I think he reached out to my parents to say, hey I haven't heard from Allison, is she traveling? Because she travels for her job."
Feb 19, 2015: http://www.fox10phoenix.com/story/28144956/2015/02/19/scottsdale-police-investigate-woman-found-dead

And I don't mean to repeat myself, but this stands out to me. When you are very close to someone, you would always tell them if you were to be leaving town...always. If you aren't telling them, to me that sounds like a "distanced" relationship. He had to call her dad to ask if she was out of town? Why wouldn't Allison tell him that? If the "love of my life" wasn't keeping me aware of their travels (while I was asking them to get a surveillance system for their house based on my concern for them), I would think this maybe wasn't "the love of my life" as her feelings would not seem to reciprocate.

 

[MaryS]

Thank you Enzeder, that refreshed my memory about the mom being the last one to possibly recieve communication from Allison. I'm still not convinced that last text her mother recieved was sent by her. The murderer could've easily sent it to her mom.

 

[MissD]

And I don't mean to repeat myself, but this stands out to me. When you are very close to someone, you would always tell them if you were to be leaving town...always. If you aren't telling them, to me that sounds like a "distanced" relationship. He had to call her dad to ask if she was out of town? Why wouldn't Allison tell him that? If the "love of my life" wasn't keeping me aware of their travels (while I was asking them to get a surveillance system for their house based on my concern for them), I would think this maybe wasn't "the love of my life" as her feelings would not seem to reciprocate.

Oh Dee! That's scary! Maybe Allison was trying desperately to get away from him! I agree that him asking them if she was traveling was very extremely strange! Always struck me that way!

 

[MaryS]

And I don't mean to repeat myself, but this stands out to me. When you are very close to someone, you would always tell them if you were to be leaving town...always. If you aren't telling them, to me that sounds like a "distanced" relationship. He had to call her dad to ask if she was out of town? Why wouldn't Allison tell him that? If the "love of my life" wasn't keeping me aware of their travels (while I was asking them to get a surveillance system for their house based on my concern for them), I would think this maybe wasn't "the love of my life" as her feelings would not seem to reciprocate.

I really think he would've known her plans for the 18th seeing as he was just with her the 17th especially plans to leave town. Really? You don't tell the guy your going to be engaged to that your leaving town in 24hrs? You just leave and never tell him? That sounds so odd to me. Just my opinion.

 

[enzeder]

Thank you Enzeder, that refreshed my memory about the mom being the last one to possibly recieve communication from Allison. I'm still not convinced that last text her mother recieved was sent by her. The murderer could've easily sent it to her mom.

yw MaryS - I've seen both talked and texted reported in MSM and that's why I said I'm not certain that there was actual verbal communication between Allison and her mother that night. I guess we'll have to wait until more info is released to know for sure.

 

[MissD]

I know I have posted this here before. But I will do it again. At the first Community Meeting I went to there was this weird lady there in a tin foil hat. Yeah...I did type that.

She was cornering everyone she could to tell them what she knew or what she thought she knew. She told me that someone had to be "removed from Allison's house on Sunday".

No one paid her any attention. Including me. I wish now I had given her more time. As it was it took me about 15 minutes to escape from her. When she began getting into her aliens theory I politely excused myself.

 

[MaryS]

Are we all repeating things on here or is it just me...Lol...sorry if I am but this whole thing is mind boggling to me.

 

[MissD]

yw MaryS - I've seen both talked and texted reported in MSM and that's why I said I'm not certain that there was actual verbal communication between Allison and her mother that night. I guess we'll have to wait until more info is released to know for sure.

Yes Enzeder! I want to thank you as well. You are great at coming up with those links just when we need them!

Hugs!!!

 

[MissD]

Are we all repeating things on here or is it just me...Lol...sorry if I am but this whole thing is mind boggling to me.

Yes we are Mary! But we must if we are going to get to the bottom of things.

 

[MaryS]

I know I have posted this here before. But I will do it again. At the first Community Meeting I wennt to there was this weird lady there in a tin foil hat. Yeah...I did type that.

She was cornering everyone she could to tell them what she knew or what she thought she knew. She told me that someone had to be "removed from Allison's house on Sunday".

No one paid her any attention. Including me. I wish now I had given her more time. As it was it took me about 15 minutes to escape from her. When she began getting into her aliens theory I politely excused

So, you didn't like my foil hat?! Oh gosh, pardon my joke...I hadn't read your entire post before I said that. I wasn't the lady talking about aliens.

 

[enzeder]

I really think he would've known her plans for the 18th seeing as he was just with her the 17th especially plans to leave town. Really? You don't tell the guy your going to be engaged to that your leaving town in 24hrs? You just leave and never tell him? That sounds so odd to me. Just my opinion.

Yes, yet another :thinking: moment for me too.

 

[cluciano63]

OT, when Adrienne S. went missing, I believed her boyfriend's story right away, even though it had her leaving his car and taking off on foot. I know many doubted him, but LE verbally cleared his name fairly quickly, if I remember correctly. Anyway...just a thought I had, looking back (at a horrible case, as yet unsolved.)

 

[MissD]

I really think he would've known her plans for the 18th seeing as he was just with her the 17th especially plans to leave town. Really? You don't tell the guy your going to be engaged to that your leaving town in 24hrs? You just leave and never tell him? That sounds so odd to me. Just my opinion.

But MaryS, do we really know if she was with him on the 17th?

 

[MissD]

So, you didn't like my foil hat?! Oh gosh, pardon my joke...I hadn't read your entire post before I said that. I wasn't the lady talking about aliens.

LOL!!! Funny girl!

 

[MissD]

So, you didn't like my foil hat?! Oh gosh, pardon my joke...I hadn't read your entire post before I said that. I wasn't the lady talking about aliens.

MaryS, were you there?

 

[Indy Anna]

I really think he would've known her plans for the 18th seeing as he was just with her the 17th especially plans to leave town. Really? You don't tell the guy your going to be engaged to that your leaving town in 24hrs? You just leave and never tell him? That sounds so odd to me. Just my opinion.

It's likely AF normally did tell the BF her plans and that's why he thought it really odd when he couldn't reach her. If it wasn't AF's wont to inform him of her travel plans, it's more likely, IMO, that he would not have contacted AF's family. He may have been worried when he didn't hear from her in a short period of time since he heard from her often and, thinking maybe he just forgot her plans, wanted to put his mind at ease.

I'm not that suspicious about the BF's reaction to finding AF, either. Maybe that's because this case is reminiscent of the Maggie Daniels murder. When an audio of the 911 call in that case was played, I was very suspicious of the caller at first. The man made a comment that sounded like, "I didn't touch her" or perhaps "I didn't touch anything," and said he wasn't sure if she was alive. My suspicions faded as we learned more. The caller was the son of Maggie's friend who found her body. They had gone to check on Maggie after she hadn't met with the friend as scheduled the previous evening. The murderer was a neighbor.

People may make comments that sound like they're deflecting guilt because they're in shock at coming upon an obvious crime scene. They may want to distance themselves from the crime itself and offer LE support by assuring them they haven't interfered with the crime scene. JMO. I wanted to offer an alternative view of the BF's reactions because of the mistakes I made early in Maggie's murder.

 

[enzeder]

BBM: First, let me say how sorry I am for the loss of your mother and for a neighbor to compare that to the loss of a cat was highly insensitive. Even the most well meaning people can sometimes say the dumbest things because of the awkwardness they feel at the moment.

Your school teacher approach to his comment intrigues me! I do know that FBI profilers look at things the same way you did. When Susan Smith drowned her children by driving the car into the water with them in it, no one knew she did it. But during a live TV interview when she was crying about them an FBI profiler noticed she was only wiping tears from under one eye. We cry from both eyes, not just one. That was their first clue, so I have read, that she might have been guilty. They knew she was faking.

Yes, it did sound trite (phony), perfectly described by your definition.

I felt the same outrage you did when I read that Tweet. To me it came off as selfish and insensitive.

Pretty unbelievable for a guy who "can't even speak about it until the time is right".

Isn't that what he was quoted as saying to the media?

JMO

Here's a post of mine from the first thread.

enzeder Post #98 - Thread #1

BBM - In this video, at below link, the reporter talks about the funeral in Minnesota and a memorial for Allison that is going to be held in Scottsdale. He (reporter) mentions, at the end of the video that he also reached out to Allison's boyfriend but he (boyfriend) told him that "he wasn't in any shape to speak right now" ... "but when the time is right he will".

Feb 23, 2015: Allison Feldman update: Scottsdale woman remembers murdered best friend
http://www.abc15.com/news/region-no...ottsdale-woman-remembers-murdered-best-friend

Original post: http://www.websleuths.com/forums/sh...n-her-Scottsdale-home&p=11542372#post11542372