I don't and I have a daughter myself, would I be annoyed, yes. Have you never had to pee so badly you will use whatever restroom is open? I have an hour and a half home from work so I have had this issue at gas stations during rush hour. Rattling the door is not offensive to me.
The father seems to have a slight rage issue with the prior domestic violence and arson arrests in my opinion.
Slightly O/T but my friend discovered her fiancee was sexually molesting her daughter. Did she kill him? No, she had her day in court and he will not be seeing the light of day again. She knew she could prove her case in court, so instead of traumatizing her daughter even more by witnessing a murder, and risking her child losing her mother, she took the high road and sent him to jail. This is an example of a much more extreme situation then the one we are discussing here. I'm sure if my friend's 11 year old could stand up in court and testify, his daughter would have been able to do the same. Sometimes you really have to think before acting and causing further damage.