heartfortruth
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First of all I won't hurl anything promise, lol.
After a certain age imo you cannot hold the parents responsible.
I have a brother who is violent, my Mother prays every day for him and it breaks my heart to see the things he does to her. He is 36.
My Mom will not talk about the things he does to her co-workers, she tried for years to get him help, nothing helps him because he will not help himself.
I love him because he is my brother but I sure don't like him or the things he does.
I had a brother who was mentally ill, several diagnoses; actually appears that it was a "classic" onset of schizophrenia but he was also said to be "bi-polar". The family did everything they could to help him with limited resources and limited help from state facilities. He would get hostile at times but would never had really hurt anyone I do not believe.
But I did learn that after a certain age we could not make him get help or have him picked up or committed to a facility unless he consented OR HE DID SOMETHING , HURT SOMEONE FIRST!!
there are so many things I could say about this but I will stop as i certainly do not know what went on in that particular family.
I am SO SORRY for those this young man killed or wounded and for their families and my heart's prayers go out to ALL involved. SO VERY SAD.