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I, myself, struggled for ten years with infertility and then was blessed with a very risky pregnancy which resulted in the greatest blessing of my whole life.
I have also had friends and family who had "oops" babies who turned out to be the light of their parent's lives! My SIL actually considered terminating her last pregnancy. She already had 3 under 7, and the pregnancy was medically pretty scary.
Still, she and her husband chose to have and embrace this baby and he is the joy of the WHOLE family, not just mom and dad.
The thing is, in either circumstance, I never heard a parent call their soon-to-be baby a "disappointment". My heart breaks for that baby. I hope after this public statement that CPS will check in to make sure there is no abuse (PPP,PPD, whatever).
I musta flicked past this reply yesterday and came back and reread
crazy... My Aug 17 babe was also a risky one... Hospitalised at 24 weeks released at 30+5 and re hospitalised 12 hours later, 5 days later my son arrived..
Wouldn't change anything about him/the pregnancy or the aftermath of it all... I am a stronger woman for the pain endured