Judge Judy was on the Larry King show last night and she was quite surprised to hear about the honeymoon sex tape. She basically said that any judge would deny custody to him if he was offering that to the public. (Which was already stated above!)
http://transcripts.cnn.com/TRANSCRIPTS/0611/13/lkl.01.html
KING: They're supposing he has a tape of their honeymoon night, which he threatens to put on some Internet or something...
SHEINDLIN: Really?
KING: Unless...
SHEINDLIN: ... I didn't hear that. That would be...
KING: Again, that's what I heard.
SHEINDLIN: ... That's what you heard. You're selling me what you bought and I'm going to tell you this.
That being the case, that would be all that I would need as a family court judge, hearing the custody case, to say you will never get custody of these children, never because the one thing parents have to understand is that it's really important for the welfare of children, even if you're married to an idiot. He's an idiot that you chose or she's an idiot that you chose, that the children feel good about both parents and not hate the other parent.
And you also want to make sure that the parent who has custody of the children is not depressed all the time because you're constantly harassing them. And constantly doing the wrong thing. So if there is any truth in that statement that he's threatening to go dirty, that would be the dispositive answer.
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I hope they both keep their children and his other children in mind throughout this debacle.