When I resurrected this thread some months ago, I pretty much expected to be the only person posting; I didn't expect it to take on the life that it has, and I mean that in a positive way. My interest in the case started in 1996, with the verdict of the second trial and having seen the American Justice episode dedicated to the case. At the time, I was a teenager, struggling to survive in an abusive situation at home and that's probably why this case became of significant interest to me. One thing I want to make clear: I do not condone the murder of Jose and Kitty Menendez by their sons, nor do I think that Lyle and Erik Menendez should not have been punished for their crime, but I felt that the media is slanted toward the prosecution's theory and tends to ridicule and dismiss the abuse allegations, purely because the brothers came from a wealthy family and until recently, there has been a tendency to disbelieve males who have been abused. I'd like to think that we know more now and have a deeper understanding, especially with the revelations in recent years of sexual abuse of children and teenagers in the entertainment industry, and as I have noted, Jose Menendez was an entertainment executive and has been implicated in the Menudo sexual abuse scandal and that information did not come from me.
We mostly engage in healthy debates here, but if anyone has ever felt that they were personally attacked in this thread I apologize, as that was not my intention in posting in this thread.
I just want to make it clear that I don't know the Menendez brothers or anyone associated with their case personally; this is all my own opinion and research. On other sites I have actually been accused of ridiculous things; on youtube, especially, I was once accused of being one of the brothers' wives (that one really got me laughing, as I don't even live in the US), or that I am smearing the "good name" of Jose Menendez. That is something else that I can't really take seriously; as much as he and his wife were murder victims, I am certainly not the only one to have a negative opinion of him; even former prosecutor Pamela Bozanich admitted that she was later told by people who knew Jose that he was "one of the most horrible people on earth". After the murders, Lyle was sent an note by Warren Hudson, who had worked at the Hercz corporation while Jose was general manager:
Having worked under your father and been on the receiving end of more than one of his tirades and having been witness to his destroying people in business meetings, actually reducing grown men to tears, I was wondering if I could ask you a question? I was just wondering if Jose was a whimpering piece of **** when the other guys(s) had the big guns and all the power on their side, or if he was still super macho, Mr. Arrogance and spit in their eye. When all the stories came out about the Beverly Hills police department 'interviewing' everyone who might have had a motive to kill Jose, I called to ask them why they never contacted me . . . . and lots of other Hertz people . . . . I explained to them that I would have done the job for nothing, but at the least, I would want to shake the hand of the actual killer(s).
I am not forgetting that Jose was a murder victim, but he was most certainly NOT innocent and in my opinion, he smeared his own name by being a horrible person and a rotten husband and father, who cared only for himself and what he felt the world owed him. Kitty was something of a victim in her own right, but she failed to protect her sons and this is what ultimately, led to her death, IMO. It doesn't make it right or acceptable, but given the circumstances, Jose and Kitty did bear some degree of responsibility as to the environment that they created. As I said before, it is never mentioned in documentaries that Jose and Kitty owned guns themselves or that Lyle and Erik are not the only ones who have accused their father of sexual abuse. But Hollywood produces these documentaries and they are not to going to expose one of their own, even one who has been dead nearly 30 years.
As long as I am able and as long as there is interest in the case I will continue to post and update. Thank you all for making this thread as active as it is.
NOTE: I made a mistake when I stated in an earlier post as to where Erik Menendez is currently incarcerated. He is in Pleasant Valley State Prison in Coalinga, California; his job position in the prison hospice and his determination to further his education still stands. I apologize for the error.