Jeana (DP)
Former Member
On Dr. Phil tonight, they're showing the case of a man whom his wife suspects has been "inappropriate" with their 15-year old daughter. They're also profiling another suspected pedophile. Its on here in Dallas at 9:00.
Family often knows something is up for decades, usually because the family member preys on them first. But turning your brother in and revealing that you or your children have been sexually molested by a family member is a lot harder than simply severing contact and trying to stay the hell away from the family member in question. Traditionally that's how most families deal with their "funny uncles", especially when money is involved. My 1st husband had an uncle who was clearly, in retrospect, a classic fixated pedophile. I noticed that no one in the family allowed Uncle Rob to spend any time alone with the children, especially the boys. It was made clear that while the entire family seriously disliked the uncle, he was still allowed at family functions because the grandmother, who was a millionairess, would disown them if they spoke out against her favorite son. Luckily I never had children by that husband--who was adamant about not having kids. In aprt, I now suspect, because his own mother had fobbed him off on this uncle while he was a young boy.Tom'sGirl said:Bingo BP!
Very strange that his now 65 year old brother has never brought this to the attention of the LE but was aware of it all these years.
It just doesn't ring 'true', he just now says something after Earl was arrested, come on now![]()
In my opinion if he had even been a little bit suspect of Earl he would have been astranged from him far beyond the two years he states.
This case will now involve both San Bernardino & Riverside counties and my hope is that they don't drop the ball and will persue investigation into this case.
I agree with some of what you've posted, BUT in this case this older brother was living there only three years ago!BillyGoatGruff said:Family often knows something is up for decades, usually because the family member preys on them first. But turning your brother in and revealing that you or your children have been sexually molested by a family member is a lot harder than simply severing contact and trying to stay the hell away from the family member in question. Traditionally that's how most families deal with their "funny uncles", especially when money is involved. My 1st husband had an uncle who was clearly, in retrospect, a classic fixated pedophile. I noticed that no one in the family allowed Uncle Rob to spend any time alone with the children, especially the boys. It was made clear that while the entire family seriously disliked the uncle, he was still allowed at family functions because the grandmother, who was a millionairess, would disown them if they spoke out against her favorite son. Luckily I never had children by that husband--who was adamant about not having kids. In aprt, I now suspect, because his own mother had fobbed him off on this uncle while he was a young boy.
I suspect the older brother might have also been the poorer brother, too. Hence his living there. Whatever happened, it was enough to make the older brother pull up stakes. I'm betting the stepdaughter is now grown, given this guy's age, and only recently disclosed to the family about the molestation. Turning in family to the police is pretty difficult to do, especially if other members of the family might turn against you. Molesters re pretty manipulative, too, and shameless in how they'll try and demonzie the person who speaks out. There were days i regretted ever speaking up and being willing to help the cops because i had to endure a lot of grief, including losing a job, friends, etc. Its easy to say "do the right thing" until you find yourself ostracized/punished for doing it.Tom'sGirl said:I agree with some of what you've posted, BUT in this case this older brother was living there only three years ago!
This is how it normally is entering Baja, they don't check for fire arms either.Old Broad said:Interesting that apparently he had no problem taking this young boy into Mexico, only returning was he asked for proper papers.
BUT, coming back across you are questioned by U.S. Border guards and the boy was Hispanic in appearance, so they wanted to see his papers.
When we traveled back and forth across the border with my daughters then teen girl friends we always carried a copy of their Birth Certificate, and a photo ID for them, much like a VISA.
If he did not have consent from the boy's family to take the child, then why weren't they filing a missing child report? Or did the perv just lie about where he was taking the boy? Either way, I wouldn't let a 60 YO man who was not a relative take my kids overnight.Tom'sGirl said:SNIPS:
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Except for a quick glance at his son sitting at the back of the courtroom, Earl Venton Buchanan, 62, showed little emotion during his brief court appearance before Magistrate Judge Peter C. Lewis.
Lewis declined to issue an order, telling Johnson it was something that would have to be brought up with U.S. District Judge Marilyn L. Huff in San Diego. Huff, who handles felony trials, is taking over the case.
Buchanan's adult son, who had driven six hours to get to the hearing and had spent an hour visiting his father at the Imperial County Jail on the weekend, declined to comment about the case.
A bail hearing scheduled for Tuesday did not occur, but the judge said Buchanan has the right to ask for one later.
The U.S. attorney's office has said that Buchanan did not have consent from the boy's family to take him to Mexico.
- Buchanan, a retired contractor and real estate broker, was arrested July 3 after crossing into the United States from the U.S.-Mexico border at Calexico accompanied by a 5-year-old Banning boy who is not related to him. Border inspectors searched Buchanan's vehicle after he failed to provide documentation for the child and said he didn't know where the boy's parents were, according to a criminal complaint filed by an U.S. Immigration and Customs Enforcement agent.
Investigators have identified about 11 victims between 2 and 15 years old, ICE spokeswoman Lauren Mack said Monday. They are also pursuing leads in Arkansas, Arizona and Mexico, she said.
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- If convicted of the federal charges, Buchanan could be sentenced to as long as 70 years in prison and fined $750,000. His next court appearance is scheduled Aug. 28 before Judge Huff.
Earl, now 62 has been taking kids all over the place, in and out of State/Country for years, including taking them with him to visit his relatives an was posted in the articles.bakerprune64 said:If he did not have consent from the boy's family to take the child, then why weren't they filing a missing child report? Or did the perv just lie about where he was taking the boy? Either way, I wouldn't let a 60 YO man who was not a relative take my kids overnight.
I think he had their permission to take him, just not out of the country. Meaning they knew he had the kid with him, so it wasn't a missing person situation sp there was no alert.bakerprune64 said:If he did not have consent from the boy's family to take the child, then why weren't they filing a missing child report? Or did the perv just lie about where he was taking the boy? Either way, I wouldn't let a 60 YO man who was not a relative take my kids overnight.
Exactly BGG!BillyGoatGruff said:I think he had their permission to take him, just not out of the country. Meaning they knew he had the kid with him, so it wasn't a missing person situation sp there was no alert.
At this point they still have not realeased the information on the boys parents/parent.SewingDeb said:The parents were allowing him to travel with their son from the time he was only 11 months old? They need to be charged too!
Sadly, there are parents out there willing to pimp their children out for some kind of gain. I know one mother who did it so she could drive one of the cast members of Star Trek to the airport.Tom'sGirl said:At this point they still have not realeased the information on the boys parents/parent.
I'm guessing the mother is here illegally and used her son as a pawn for a place to live.
BUT, much more will be revealed, and probaly won't until he appears in court next month.
BillyGoatGruff said:Sadly, there are parents out there willing to pimp their children out for some kind of gain. I know one mother who did it so she could drive one of the cast members of Star Trek to the airport.