While I get what you're saying, let's stick to some of the known facts. TW hasn't bern accused of being anything other than a grieving mother who lost her first born daughter just 19 days into her precious life. MW, has a long history of substance abuse and incarceration going back to at least 2013. If you look at his FB posts and the comments in them you'll see as recently as dec. 2014 he said that he signed up for "outpatient". Back in 2013 he was in jail for a good amount of time shortly after he posted that he got a raise and a promotion. He sounds like he's been in and out of rehab and jail for at least 2 or 3 years. There's no indication (yet) that TW did anything other than support him and have a child by him.
It's was reported earlier that the GM did not get along with MW. Given the normal stress of a newborn, I can see them keeping clear of one another if for no other reason than to just reduce the tension. So while TW was at work, GM may have just left MW alone to give them some space. Again from FB posts, TW and others commented about how much MW loved Ellora saying "you can see it in his smile". It sounds like TW, GM and others couldn't conceive of MW doing harm to Ellora even with his addiction/abuse issues. All the commenters on FB say that, before last week, he cared deeply about Ellora, and thought that he may have finally changed for the better.
That being said, even if GM suspected that MW was high and caring for baby, then she would need LE to arrest MW. It sounds like that's why she called 911. While she was looking for a working phone, he jetted out if the house with the baby (deceased). When he finally came back, by which time TW was home either by schedule or because GM called her. MW probably convinced TW that her mom hated him anyway and then sold her the disappearance story. Remember, this is a mother who comes home and her newborn baby is now missing. If I were her, I wouldn't give a crap about a fight between my mother and boyfriend but would be focused on finding the baby no matter what. I can see TW going along with MW's story because she has no choice. GM didn't see the baby all day and TW left the baby with her loving and caring father (at least in her mind). Thus they went to the police together. A few hours later, when MW sobers up and TW has time to question his story and talk to her mother, the truth comes out.
Bottom line is that a beautiful little baby girl is dead, a mother is crushed and devastated and families and friends are heartbroken. Whatever happened in that room, the responsibility of Ellora's death lies solely at the feet of MW. He was her father. He was supposed to love, care for and protect her. She died (a presumably unnatural death) on his watch. Ultimately, he failed as a human being and Ellora paid the price.
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