Hi everyone, I am new and am so excited to finally find a place to discuss this case. I admit I am fascinated with this case. I guess I got that way when Evan deleted his twitter message about Gavin leaving the family, then saying his parents were just going through normal stuff.
Why do they always have to lie?
Anyway, I go back and forth believing Gavin is dead to believing he ran off.
The only thing that makes me think he might be dead is that he had a really good, long term job and three kids. Surely he wouldn't want to leave them, but when you are talking about a man who is going through a midlife crisis, anything is possible.
Why I think he ran off:
He obviously left his wife.
His son wasn't talking to him.
He had a girlfriend.
He was behind on his mortgage…where was he putting the money instead…perhaps squirreling it away for his leaving?
The thing that makes me think that he is alive and has been in contact with his kids is Evan's tweets. He was begging everyone for help in finding his dad for two weeks, then those pleas stopped. Who stops looking for their father after two weeks? All searches were called off, that PR guy was hired and the entire family just doesn't seem frantic any longer. Evan has left cryptic messages like "you are just someone I used to know" which seem to be directed at his father.
Evan didn't even say Happy Father's day to his dad. You would think that since he has a dad out there who might be missing or dead, he would tweet how much he loved him, how heavy his heart was or something.
The sense of urgency just seems to be gone. I have to wonder if the police have told the family that they tracked Gavin down or Gavin called and said he wasn't coming back.
I don't know, but I am glad to be here. I have been reading a lot of posts and you guys are really great.
Why do they always have to lie?
Anyway, I go back and forth believing Gavin is dead to believing he ran off.
The only thing that makes me think he might be dead is that he had a really good, long term job and three kids. Surely he wouldn't want to leave them, but when you are talking about a man who is going through a midlife crisis, anything is possible.
Why I think he ran off:
He obviously left his wife.
His son wasn't talking to him.
He had a girlfriend.
He was behind on his mortgage…where was he putting the money instead…perhaps squirreling it away for his leaving?
The thing that makes me think that he is alive and has been in contact with his kids is Evan's tweets. He was begging everyone for help in finding his dad for two weeks, then those pleas stopped. Who stops looking for their father after two weeks? All searches were called off, that PR guy was hired and the entire family just doesn't seem frantic any longer. Evan has left cryptic messages like "you are just someone I used to know" which seem to be directed at his father.
Evan didn't even say Happy Father's day to his dad. You would think that since he has a dad out there who might be missing or dead, he would tweet how much he loved him, how heavy his heart was or something.
The sense of urgency just seems to be gone. I have to wonder if the police have told the family that they tracked Gavin down or Gavin called and said he wasn't coming back.
I don't know, but I am glad to be here. I have been reading a lot of posts and you guys are really great.