Thanks for the background info, merimer! I have one question that has been bothering me. PC was an only child and her dad worked at a military base as a sheet metal worker. I know you said JC & SC grew up without much, but were they close to PC's mom that you recall? It just seems like having only the one daughter and working at a military base with the skills he had, that he might have made good money--or at least a pension or something for her since he died young. Or were they estranged possibly due to a race issue with PC's first partner? I know the youngest daughter is white. I'm not trying to be racist, but I'm wondering whether the grandparents might have been? Thanks for any help.
I am talking to my mom right now. she is telling me that JC had a big sister (through the BIG SISTER program) her name is Cammi ?Blackstone is the last name. She was a disc jockey for KFRC. They were close to each other at one point maybe she is even involved in the search. As far as the Grandmother my mom as long as she lived there cannot recall her coming over. (now my mom is blind so she may not have seen her)she does recall them going there for some Christmas's the grandmother lived somewhere outside of San Francisco. My mom also told me Pam was probably on a lot of pain medications not "ILLEGAL" drugs I don't want to put wrong info out there but Pam did have something wrong with her back.