Deceased/Not Found CA - Jennifer Walsh, 23, & Alexander Riffenburg, 16 mos, Los Angeles, 11 Jan 2009

  • #21
Holeinmyheart, I don't know how much you can say without being a verified insider (have you contacted a mod?).

Do you think Jennifer and Alexander were both victims of foul play? You mentioned people besides Riffenburg who might be involved in the disappearance. Have they been interviewed by LE?
 
  • #22
Hi Everyone,

Holeinmyheart is now a verified insider in Jennifer and Alexander's case.

Please treat Holeinmyheart with respect.

Remember Holeinmyheart does not need to provide links to her posts and it's up to you whether to believe what Holeinmyheart posts or not.

Thank you
 
  • #23
I honestly don't know what to believe, all I know is my sister has people in the family she absolutely would have contacted and those she never would. I don't think I can say what I believe in public. Yes they have been interviewed but this case is so twisted L.E. has had little to go on and is obviously not a priority after so many years. I will answer any questions and provide any facts I can. TY all for helping.
 
  • #24
So that everyone knows what the true circumstances were I will say what I know as Fact. Jennifer was having problems living in my mothers house in Palmdale. We have separate fathers and I was living in the Palm Springs area at the time. She called me and asked if she could come stay with me until she can find a place in my area she had around $1500 and state aid. We found a place 1 Bd $800 per month as I remember? With an offer for him to work onsite and take the deposit off his check in increments. I thought it was a great offer but he declined so I said to Jennifer " if he doesn't want to work you and the baby can stay but he cannot" I will re-live these words everyday, because the next day I woke up at 6am to a text on my phone saying basically thanks for nothing we are going to Washington to his mothers house I will never know if she actually sent that text from her phone or not. A few days later my mother called me and said "I hope you had nothing to do with this" I asked what???? she said that he showed up at her place in Palmdale without Jennifer and told her she was arrested at the welfare office. when 24 hrs passed she went to file a missing persons report. when she returned she said he left a note saying "you guys deserve this" and her safe was open $8k jewelry missing and 10k cash. she said she filed a report. I was shocked but not thinking my sister was in danger, this story sounded weird to me I FB messaged him and asked where is my sister? he responded "we're better off without your Evil family". I had been planning to move to Oregon and did, one day I was googling names looking for any information and found he was arrested for sleeping in city hall. I called OR state police and asked,,where is my sister and explained the story? He said he would forward this to the FBI. I will never forget him saying "We don't take our missing person reports in crayon,this doesn't feel right" and L.A. Detectives confirmed this did happen. I moved back to CA in 2013 and contacted L.A. to find out what I can do because nothing made sense. I agreed to sit down with them at my local sheriff office where I gave DNA. They had no idea her van was found at a park and ride with all of her belongings including her dads ashes and cell phone (which my mother says was used to call adoption agency's and I hope is true but also hasn't been proven) because she was the co-signer on the minivan she wound up with all of Jennifer's belongings. Mr. Riffenburg knows the real story but has given several unverifiable ones and to my knowledge has still not been interviewed by L.A. I don't know what happened after I last saw them and not a day goes by that I don't think about every detail and lament on what I could have done differently. All of this info has been given to L.E. but the classification changes depending on who I reach at missing persons, I have been told so many different things over the years, the worst is the not knowing... I desperately want my sister back. again TY everyone for caring.
 
  • #25
Thank you for sharing all these infos, Holeinmyheart!

I've been on WS for a while now and I've probably seen it all- but one question keeps coming to my head.

How was Riffenburg's relationship with Alexander? Do you think Riffenburg would have hurt his child or would have been okay with someone else hurting him? Also, did he take drugs, were there any known mental health issues?

The fact that numbers of adoption agencies were found on Jennifer's cell phone gives me some hope too that Alexander is still alive. I hope Jennifer is as well, of course.
 
  • #26
I Gave birth to my first baby on that date. Praying that Jennifer and Alexander are safe and well.
 
  • #27
Jan 11 is my birthday too :)
 
  • #28
I do not think he could have hurt his child or allowed anyone else to. I don't know for sure adoption agency's were called or that a note was left because I never saw either but the fact it was brought up is hopeful. I do know they smoked marijuana because she asked where a clinic was in P.S. I don't know of any other drugs and they didn't seem out of it when I last saw them. As for mental health I don't know, they had both been through hell as children. Jennifer was protective of him.
 
  • #29
There is alot I won't go into but my theory is something happened to Jennifer and it was in everyone's intrest to cover it up.
 
  • #30
Something else came to my mind- do you think it it possible that Alexander is raised by one of Riffenburg's relatives or friends somewhere?

Just a thought. If any of my questions upset you please let me know, Holeinmyheart.
 
  • #31
So he didn't end up going to live with his mother? Did she actually get arrested or did he make that up? I hope she can be found!
 
  • #32
I didn't know he even had contact with his mother until then, I think he had many sibilings raised by the system but remember Jennifer talking about a sister in the LA area he did have frequent contact with. It is very possible Alexander is with a relative on either side. I don't get offended easily please ask away, I appreciate not being alone in my search.
 
  • #33
I don't know what to believe about the story given, I know he has come up with many others that haven't been confirmed.
 
  • #34
Some more thoughts...Have you contacted Riffenburg in the past years when he was behind bars already? Do you think there's any chance he might reveal something (well, the truth finally) to you after all these years? At least about Alexander's wherabouts I mean. If he knows where he ended up.
 
  • #35
I have not, I asked the DA if I should write but she said It probably wouldn't help because he didn't know me well and what he did know about me before they came to my house was mostly false. I think he will come clean eventually, as soon as his motivation for silence drys up or he finds religion. I pray for truth to prevail no matter how ugly that truth is.
 
  • #36
There has been documented retaliation for my cooperation and my question is why??? If we all WANT to find Jennifer and Alexander?
 
  • #37
what do you mean by retaliation?

I think that abusers hide things well. its always "he was the nicest guy". I hope she is safe and well somewhere and the baby too.

There has been documented retaliation for my cooperation and my question is why??? If we all WANT to find Jennifer and Alexander?
 
  • #38
I agree abusers are very good at hiding it but I also know my sister was not one to be quiet about problems either. I didn't have much contact with him so I don't know his temperment other than what she told me and I witnessed. As for retaliation I won't go into specifics but as soon as I started asking questions about certain details I noticed were inconsistant people turned ugly on me real quick. I hope they are safe but there are many unanswered questions. I'm considering paying Riffenburg a visit next time I'm up there maybe he will open up if I'm face to face asking him questions?
 
  • #39
I think I'd definitely visit and confront him face to face. Some time has passed, he might talk or say something at least.

What stood out to me was that you think he wouldn't have harmed Alexander or would have allowed others to do so. Well, one never knows for sure of course (hello, we're on WS) but I'd assume he cared about his son. He had a horrible childhood himself so maybe he will let you know what happened to Alexander at least. Or he'd come clean about what happened to both of them eventually.
 
  • #40
I was trying to post a pic of them at Alexander's birthday party but don't know how, the way they are looking at eachother is how I remember him acting with his son. I will figure out what I have to do to get a visit then make a trip. I think he would talk about it in person.
 

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