I'm not excusing her comments, they went way beyond acceptable. However, I do keep in mind that she's only four or five years older than Sierra herself.
She's not done growing up herself, she's got a toddler and she's pregnant. She's probably estranged from her own parents (judging from the statutory rape charge and the fact that they live with his parents).
And now she's discovering that the man she loves has done something monstrous. Has probably been committing assaults during much of their relationship.
I would hope I would handle it with more restraint than she is... but I just don't know.
I do know that she needs someone or several someones to be there for her, to support her and help her through this.
I went to try and find this answer myself, no luck.
So my question...
What happened? What did the wife say?