CA CA - Susan Jacobson, 59, Sun City/Roseville, 2 May 2013 - #2

[Seajay]

I am looking back at my notes...

Husband is not a POI... But he has not been ruled out by LE...

:waitasec:

Exactly. He is not a poi. And as a rule I don't like saying anything negative about family members, they are going through enough. However, in this case, the husband's behavior is just plain "off" from what we know people usually do when a loved one is missing and that is always a red flag. LE looks for things like that as an indicator of who may be culpable. I know we all handle things differently, not all of us would do the same things in the same situation. That's what makes us unique, but every once in awhile, things are so glaring, they are hard to ignore. kwim?

 

[IHAVENOCLUE]

Exactly. He is not a poi. And as a rule I don't like saying anything negative about family members, they are going through enough. However, in this case, the husband's behavior is just plain "off" from what we know people usually do when a loved one is missing and that is always a red flag. LE looks for things like that as an indicator of who may be culpable. I know we all handle things differently, not all of us would do the same things in the same situation. That's what makes us unique, but every once in awhile, things are so glaring, they are hard to ignore. kwim?

Yes... I totally understand...

That is actually why I reposted this known information...

To remind myself... Husband has not been ruled out by LE...

 

[IHAVENOCLUE]

By The Way... Seajay...

I really appreciate your words of wisdom to help lead a more fulfilled life...

"Never pass up an opportunity to pee..."

:laughcry:

 

[IHAVENOCLUE]

Reviewing some posts on this thread...

I was reminded by a WSer that THERE HAS BEEN NO VIGIL FOR SUSAN, YET!...

Though there had been talk of a vigil "being in the works" a while back...

 

[Treelights]

Reviewing some posts on this thread...

I was reminded by a WSer that THERE HAS BEEN NO VIGIL FOR SUSAN, YET!...

Though there had been talk of a vigil "being in the works" a while back...

Right, No Vigil. Would they even show up for Susan's Vigil? If there is No Voice for her now, it seems unlikely that they would have a vigil.
Very sad indeed!
IMOO.

 

[Treelights]

Exactly. He is not a poi. And as a rule I don't like saying anything negative about family members, they are going through enough. However, in this case, the husband's behavior is just plain "off" from what we know people usually do when a loved one is missing and that is always a red flag. LE looks for things like that as an indicator of who may be culpable. I know we all handle things differently, not all of us would do the same things in the same situation. That's what makes us unique, but every once in awhile, things are so glaring, they are hard to ignore. kwim?

Good Post! Even though Susan's husband is not a person of interest or suspect, he himself did mention that he would be on the Top of Everyone's List. So knowing that, but yet not addressing Susan's situation, like he Loves Her after 35 years of marriage, and there are No Pleas to the perp to let his wife that he loves, go. Let her come home to her family. There is none of that.
In one article I read, the family just wants a resolution.
I know it is unbearable to have a loved one missing, but their actions are lacking in many many ways, and those actions are Red Flags.
If it is a stranger abduction, then the actions of the family just show a very dysfunctional side to their family. Maybe that is their "normal".
IMOO.

 

[Treelights]

I was thinking about Susan's lack of cell phone. Although there are people that have landlines, and/or a cellphone, maybe the real reason why Susan did not have a cell phone is the fact that Susan and her husband did not talk much to each other, so there was no need for her to have one, particularly if they do have a landline.
The lack of communication(to the public) after Susan went missing, speaks volumes to me, though.....
IMOO.

 

[EmmyB]

I just wanted to share my experience. About 2 yrs ago my dad called me at work. He said I can't find your mom. He sounded panicked. I said WHAT?? What do you mean? He came home from work early that day and mom's car was in the driveway but she wasn't in the house and her cell phone was on the table. He thought maybe she took a walk, but it seemed strange because she didn't take their dog. He waited about an hour and then decided to drive around and look for her. They have quite a bit of property and live in a rural neighborhood. After about an hour of driving/looking around is when he called me. He said do you think I should call the police or what. I said no not yet let's start calling people. He & my sister called family. I started calling neighbors. I decided to leave work and head over to their house and on my way there dad called and said your mom is walking up the driveway. I started crying and couldn't stop, even writing this makes me want to cry. For me she was only "missing" for a couple of hours I can't imagine what families go through when there is no word for days, weeks, months, or even years.
I just wanted to share this because my parents are about the same age & have been married for about the same amount of time as these people. While my dad did go out looking for her, he also wanted to call the police early on.

 

[Treelights]

I just wanted to share my experience. About 2 yrs ago my dad called me at work. He said I can't find your mom. He sounded panicked. I said WHAT?? What do you mean? He came home from work early that day and mom's car was in the driveway but she wasn't in the house and her cell phone was on the table. He thought maybe she took a walk, but it seemed strange because she didn't take their dog. He waited about an hour and then decided to drive around and look for her. They have quite a bit of property and live in a rural neighborhood. After about an hour of driving/looking around is when he called me. He said do you think I should call the police or what. I said no not yet let's start calling people. He & my sister called family. I started calling neighbors. I decided to leave work and head over to their house and on my way there dad called and said your mom is walking up the driveway. I started crying and couldn't stop, even writing this makes me want to cry. For me she was only "missing" for a couple of hours I can't imagine what families go through when there is no word for days, weeks, months, or even years.
I just wanted to share this because my parents are about the same age & have been married for about the same amount of time as these people. While my dad did go out looking for her, he also wanted to call the police early on.

Hi! Thanks for sharing your experience!
With Susan's case, though she's been missing for months,the insistency to have her name out in the public's eye has Not been there.
With your father, although he did search for your mom, he did want to call the police early. That is TOTALLY OPPOSITE of what happened with Susan. If Susan's husband would have searched for her at the shopping center that he Knew she would have been at that day, he would have found her car. That shopping center is basically in their neighborhood. He could have WALKED THERE if he did not want to drive, but he called hospitals and called the police. The only actions by him that have been made aware of in the media during that crucial time period was the use of a telephone. The police found her vehicle. A lady found her wallet.
It was like he didn't want to be near where her car and wallet were eventually found. Why not??
I am glad that in your situation, your mom was only missing for a few hours.
God Bless. I am sure it was very scary for you and your family.
IMOO.

 

[EmmyB]

Agreed. I feel like his actions are at the least lacking.
But I also think back to if something did happen to my mom or if we never found her then people would be questioning why my dad didn't call the police immediately.
I guess everything that spouses/partners do is always questionable or seems suspicious. IMO

 

[Eileen730]

Right, No Vigil. Would they even show up for Susan's Vigil? If there is No Voice for her now, it seems unlikely that they would have a vigil.
Very sad indeed!
IMOO.

Why have a vigil when this poor woman had no friends who would show up?
What a sad vision a vigil for her and no one showed up!

 

[Eileen730]

I would really love to know when her son last saw her or spoke to her

 

[Treelights]

Why have a vigil when this poor woman had no friends who would show up?
What a sad vision a vigil for her and no one showed up!

In the beginning there was a search for Susan with about 200 volunteers, so I would think that if there was a vigil that those who Did search for Susan would show up....
IMOO.

 

[Eileen730]

In the beginning there was a search for Susan with about 200 volunteers, so I would think that if there was a vigil that those who Did search for Susan would show up....
IMOO.

True that I forgot and remember in the beginning the neighbors said they wouldn't blame her for running off why would they say that?

 

[IHAVENOCLUE]

In the beginning there was a search for Susan with about 200 volunteers, so I would think that if there was a vigil that those who Did search for Susan would show up....
IMOO.

When I read about the original search... I found that about 60 of the searchers were from husband's work... R.C. Wiley Co. Of Rocklin...

Address:

6636 Lonetree Blvd.
Rocklin, CA

JMO

 

[liz b.]

True that I forgot and remember in the beginning the neighbors said they wouldn't blame her for running off why would they say that?

They actually said that ? I remember reading that some neighbors wondered if SJ staged her own disappearance ? jmo moo

 

[IHAVENOCLUE]

True that I forgot and remember in the beginning the neighbors said they wouldn't blame her for running off why would they say that?

Interesting response ...

I don't remember that...

I am not doubting you...

do you have a link?

TIA...:seeya:

 

[LittleMissContrary]

Here is the photo. Susan on far right.

 

[Psychedelia]

Thanks for the photo! Where did you find it?

You know, Susan's been painted out to be almost a... I don't know - non-entity. No friends, no real hobbies, super shy. She could have been chatting with someone online and her son and husband would have no idea or even be curious about what she was doing all day/part of the day/night. Shy people often take a lot of comfort being online and even 'meeting' people that way. I keep almost hoping that she ran off and staged her disappearance.

 

[Annie1004]

I am going to dig up something discussed a while back... Since we have no new news...

does anyone remember an attorney(?) asking if Susan had joined... Or tried to join a gym?

And stated this was IMPORTANT?

did anything come of this that I may be missing?

should we be looking at any and all gyms in her area to see if she had joined/tried to join?

:waitasec:

Yes, I remember. His theory was that Susan could be using the facilities for showers, cleaning up if she had disappeared herself or had a medical episode (amnesia?). The problem is that no trace of Susan has been found, IIRC. Nothing adds up here - if she wandered away, or got lost or (gulp) ended her life, she would have been discovered by now. But where to look for her this late in the game. Going east up I-80 toward Reno there are many hiding places. I don't think she is very far away, as occurs in a lot of these disappearances.